I have encountered this situation where the stripper stands on the couch facing me as part of routine while I was sitting during lap dance . Her lower waist was just in front of my face. Only 3 dancers did this so far in 5 years. It happens after I took 2 or 3 lap dances with that stripper. I did not know what should I do that time? It was topless dance.
Geez, it's like papi said they are likely giving you a closer glimpse. Perhaps she is inviting play (daty, fov, fiv) but that depends on her, the club, and how comfortable you are in pushing bounds and mileage. YMMV. You never really know. just go with the flow. You might touch gently and ask confidently if it's OK to proceed. IF you they type of guy that doesn't have much experience with touching women or sex workers you might have to go slow. Regardless as a guy, it works best if you act like you'd been there before / done it before. You'll creep her out less. Confidence looks good on a man.
That is a pretty standard move. A go signal.. could be from just a peek to a kiss or a severe tongue lashing in my case.
If you make a wrong move.. she will tell you..lol
The girls do this at the places I go, too. Sometimes they face me, sometimes they face away... lol. Very simple way to know what to do next. Just ask. "OMG you look so hot! May I spank/kiss/lick?" There's no reason to try to read these girls' minds!
They can't do stuff like that in our local clubs. But in San Francisco and in our Mexican Bar underground when they've gone that way I'll just kind of play with her and tease her. Little kiss right next to her pussy ( covered or exposed ). Then the same thing on the other side. Then third time, she must really mean it, so I go for it.
In San Francisco, rather than ejaculation services, I've usually gone for DATYing dancers. It works out real well, softens the girl up, avoids any blue balls risk. Shows her that getting her off is more important to me than my own ejaculation. Definitely sets the stage for more which could follow.
The coochie is a private-area and many dancers do not like it being touched - if they do this move you can:
+ ask her to show you the forbidden city
+ ask her if you can touch it
Me - I've lost all shame and I'd probably try and touch it and leave it up to her if she lets me or not - 99% of the time IME if they don't like it they just give me a warning and I respect her desires.
Thanks all.I will try any one of these next time
1 - Kiss right on the spot on the bottom
2 - Ask her if I can feel or kiss there
If she won't say anything after I do the first one,then I will rub my face for few seconds.
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Now, if she pulls her thong aside......
I am scares to pull the bottom
Just use your teeth :)
If you make a wrong move.. she will tell you..lol
In San Francisco, rather than ejaculation services, I've usually gone for DATYing dancers. It works out real well, softens the girl up, avoids any blue balls risk. Shows her that getting her off is more important to me than my own ejaculation. Definitely sets the stage for more which could follow.
SJG
Damn, SJGay ca make me laugh.
+ ask her to show you the forbidden city
+ ask her if you can touch it
Me - I've lost all shame and I'd probably try and touch it and leave it up to her if she lets me or not - 99% of the time IME if they don't like it they just give me a warning and I respect her desires.
1 - Kiss right on the spot on the bottom
2 - Ask her if I can feel or kiss there
If she won't say anything after I do the first one,then I will rub my face for few seconds.