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Igoham

So I'll try keep it short. About a month ago met a dancer and of course she's a full 10+10 she's 21 I'm 26 end up getting a dance and I ask for a handy but end up fingers deep in her and she light French's me but im a little hesitant and then she ends up riding me raw. Seemed very in to me and ends up giving me her # spent about $200

I text her over the next few days with very short replies back here and there. So I just assume one time thing. Few days later she ends up texting me saying she's working and would like to see me. I stop by and we end up sitting for 45 mins talking about our personal life. End up getting a dance at about 1/4 price it would normally cost. I end up finding out she's only been dancing for a few weeks and she seems to be different than most dancers i have ever talked to.

Text again and still me mostly starting the texting but again very slow response usually about a day or two to reply. Ends up telling me cause she got fired from her day job recently and working a lot of hours at a grocery store. So after she tells me this seems like she starts texting a bit more and then she stops.

Meet up again at the club and This time she's a little wasted so little awkward but she keeps apologizing for being drunk and cause I'm a nice guy and I actually really like her we sit down and I buy her a bottle water and after a hr or more she Sobers up and she insists we dance and talk a little. Dance was ok and she tells me she's under so much stress so we end up talking a bit more and eventually she starts to get teary eyed and gives me a hug. By this time she's told me she does NOT screw in the club and has turned down $500 a few times for some light touching and $2000 for screwing from other guys in the club. End up finding out she's only had a couple different partners.

By this time I'm hooked and the more I talk to her the more I like her so i have asked a few times for her to meet me but says she's not comfortable because she doesn't know me well enough yet. She has told me before she's not a big texter and has told me that she is not the kind of person that lies to customers to get in there pockets and I believe her because she charges me less than what she should. I have met her probably a total of 5 or 6 times in the club and been going on for roughly 5 weeks or so. I have really only asked once to get a hand job since but was way to busy. She only works 2 days a week and sometimes doesn't even work for a week or two at a time there.

It's been 2 weeks since last meeting but texts have been hit and miss. I'm still usually the one texting but she's texted me 7-8 days ago telling me her car broke down on the highway and I offered to come help her but said she already had her girlfriend on her way. I have offered to help fix her car to see what she would say but never hit me up for cash. So I text here and there but I'm honestly a little fed up and I quit texting and what ya know out of the blue she texts me asking how I am and shes sorry cause she's been really busy with a new job.

I have asked her somewhat before how she feels toward me but she says it's more business now but enjoys my company and could see that changing. My gut tells me she likes me and is trying to feel me out but can't say for sure. I have posted here with this about a month ago but things changed. The more I know about her the more I like her. Is it best to try and just forget about her, tell her again I like her, or should I just give her less attention? Thanks