Paying for a stripper's time
MrDeuce
Illinois
Should you pay a stripper to dine with you? I say no. It's enough that you're paying for her food and presumably getting better acquainted for possible OTC fun. I've had five restaurant meals with strippers, three of them immediately before or after hotel room BJs and the other two just getting-to-know-you sessions. Though these meals didn't lead anywhere, they provided great eye candy and were better than eating alone :)
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If I wanted that shit, I'd just get an escort (they bill same rate per hour whether you're fucking them or not).
Now - if I feel she for some reason, w/e that reason may be, genuinely wants to spend time w/ me; then no - but o/w if it's just b/c it's business and she's doing it b/c she feels she has to (e.g. to keep a reg happy; etc); then I would say yes to paying her for her time - it is my default PL position that I don't take up a dancer's time ITC nor OTC unless I plan to spend $$$ on her - so if I'm gonna get the benefit of having arm-candy then there should be something in it for her and I don't think a free meal is doing them any great favor since what they want and need is $$$ to pay the bills.
Having said this I'm still not sure I'd pay b/c I don't like paying a dancer just for her time but at the same I don't like to take-up their time *just* for my benefit - but if the OTC date was to include payment for something other than dinner; then I would not pay-her for dinner on top of that but then again I'm not inclined to asking dancers out for dinner unless again for w/e reason they may actually want to hang-out.
Of course, the details matter. If you want to eat lunch with her every day, it would be reasonable for it to be compensated. When it happens rarely, I would see it more as more of a perk like how vendors take me out for lunch now and then.
I simply make them offer for otc p4p. when sex over they on way. I have taken them out duinner afterwards and only pay for date. one flirted w waiter trying solicit for prostitution - disrespectful bitch. another paranoid these older women talking about her being whore bc she w older man (me). current one leaves when sex over fine w mw. she lets me take naked pics for free b4 sex. I did her thru her marriage now she in relationship but she available for p4p whenever I want - their being relationship does not interfere w them meeting up 4 p4p - I guess ben trumps all
@Player11: Huh?
Ask ricky. He spent over 3K talking to a dancer once
ITC: as I've said many times, a meal is the single best investment in the club -- a $13 burger (which we often split, so $9 spent on her counting waitress tip) buys me close to an hour's time. Perhaps I couldn't get away with this if I was going to Saturday night shifts, but on Wednesday dayshift? Very few girls in the place won't buy into this
OTC: I pay for exactly one thing, the sex. All time spent drinking, eating, partying, is just free time. No girl has ever argued this -- this is one of the huge reasons to pick strippers over escorts (strippers are better looking than escorts, plus 5 hours with an escort could cost $1000 easily, where with a stripper, I pay the $250 or whatever I negotiated for the sex and that's it)
I just wouldn't ever pursue a stripper who demanded that I pay her for her time while eating in a restaurant. There are too many excellent ecdysiasts without such expectations.
To each their own, of course, if that's the way you feel. That said, while you're going around espousing your philosophy, I'm sitting and groping your fave for an hour, for a measly $9 investment in food plus a shot or two. Food is almost always the best investment in the club, for anyone who doesn't dismiss it for philosophical reasons (or, who just plain doesn't like eating with strippers). Again, totally understand if it's just not your thing... but buying food is one of the smartest decisions you can make, if it IS your thing.