Talk me up...

Dude - he just doesn't get it. Could you spend less ... Yes of course you could. Should you spend less ... maybe ... probably. But the bottom line is if you are getting what you need from it, his opinion is moot. It may sting, but take it for what it is ... an opinion.

different strokes for different folks

there are probably many people who believe spending money on strippers regularly is a waste of money

but if you enjoy it and have a good time, that's all that really matters. People in life are different and they have different things they like spending their money on

But at the end of the day it's about what makes you :-)

I suggest looking up a escort on Craigslist in your local area

I suggest you take into account what he said. If your CLOSE FRIEND says it, maybe there's some merit to that harsh humiliation.

Your friend is a retard

^^^^ biggest retard on tuscl. I make turds smarter than you

Friends don't let friends throw money at bottom barrel bitches. I make sure my buddies don't settle for anything other than USDA Prime Floozy. Maybe your buddy is just giving you some tough love on your choice of strippers?

Some might say I'm wasting money buying lap dances and expensive beer while in a strip club but where else am I going to get a very hot 20ish girl interacting with me like she wants to be a girlfriend? again and again within a few minutes and I don't have to hear about all their personal dramas or problems at home nor do I get asked for money to pay for bills. I just leave. My younger brother asks his wife for permission to spend less than $30 I believe. My older brother gets treated worse than a family pet at times and all the money he made is gone. Me? I can blow a few hundred on a whim if I want. No one says jack. It's called freedom.

@Subra...dude you are fckn hilarious. Ya my friend lives out in San Fran, right now I'm sure the stripper out there with all that money floating around are the creme de la creme comparatively. But in my market the girls I'm tossing coin @ are the creme de la creme. He was only outside of CA for the week so he didn't have time to recalibrate his expectations.

Phew! I was worried that you were bottom-trawling.

Believe it or not, the quality is not great in SF. It was un-fucking-believable back during the first internet boom, leading up to 2001, but these days -- at least on dayshift, totally different on nightshift -- aside from Gold Club, it's not easy to find a hot lineup. Not sure why, but the current boom is not translating to business in the strip clubs.

People are so quick to judge. Sometimes friends are the worst because they feel that they can say whatever they want to you. Go back to the club and dedicate a dance to him and have fun.

Oh ya I'm never going to stop. I'm a way more relaxed individual, and even he said as much. I told him strip clubbing really turned my attitude around (thus my life). It is such a relaxing experience to go to get what you want and get out without all the posturing, and the perception of abundance, has led to better interactions with civie chicks.

Of course he said I could (should be able to) get all those things without strip clubs that it's just chasing a high.

My point was if it were possible it really didn't happen before I started, so now at the very least superstition is gonna keep me at it :)

The difference between sex workers and civvys is reliability. Yes, in theory you could bang as hot or hotter girls for free, and probably have. But if you constantly chase pussy, that's probably a half dozen hookups per year... max. I think the cliche of theses no such thing as free pussy is overstated here, but there's always drawbacks. The best fuck buddies eventually either move on or want a relationship.

Maybe you're over tipping at the club. I don't know your exact habits. But if you're focusing on the best girls in your area, it's all you can do.

GACA, you are totally reminding me of me. Same boat man, so I feel ya. I'm a lone ranger, and the 2 or 3 close friends that know I enjoy it think it is stupid and a waste of money, and boy do I have to hear about it.

^^^jamesSD please start a workshop include @Subra you two really get the 25-39 crowd.

Don't get me wrong I get strippers are the "lazy way" and every now and then you have to stretch those girl getting muscles so when and if the money runs dry you can at least continue with opposite sex activities as needed.

But my game is the long game with civie chicks (and after a certain age it's the only game available really ) and while I'm waiting for shit to play out its nice to have some immediate gratification

Just like anything else (drinking, drugs, or any other hobby); there are those that will iike it and understand it and those that won't.

For some people a weekend will rarely pass w/o them getting blasted on alcohol - for other people they prefer to put thousands into a car whether it be an attention getting expensive custom paint-job; a hear it from across town sound system; or rims where they can barely turn their car - we all have our way of enjoying our free time and disposable income - or some people just choose to not live it up in fear of a rainy day.

Having said this strip-clubs IMO do have their side-effects and the more we SC the more those side-effects can pile-up per se and can affect us.

I think a part of us all feel less than adequate and why we resort to paying, but on the flip side are you getting what you want? Beats dropping the same cash on civvies and striking out IMO. And as far as bottom barrel, it depends on who you're chasing and where you set your standards.

Good luck.

Crazy Joe stop nursing on your dad's dick