Spending money on a favorite
larryfisherman
California
My CF is about to turn into my ATF. I've roughly spent 20K on her over the past four months. I love this bitch lol. I am fucking her OTC, but she don't charge me anything OTC. I guess it's because I'm paying her so much ITC.
In your strip club career which girl have you spent the most money on ITC? How much (estimate)? Over what period of time? Were you fucking her OTC?
In your strip club career which girl have you spent the most money on ITC? How much (estimate)? Over what period of time? Were you fucking her OTC?
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yeah, that's the first thing that came to my mind/head when i read this thread
I am, for once in my life, speechless.
I know I spend too much money, but hell I'm young, make great money, got no financial obligations besides myself. I can afford to do that right now. From the time I walk in the club till the time I leave, my CF doesn't leave my side, and I'm usually there for 3 or so hours. But yes I will cut down my money spending in the future.
Enough about me though, I want to hear what you guys spend on your favorite girl!
As usual I'll play along.
$800 on 1 night in Vegas. I actually got a bargain because the girl spent 7 straight hours with me and I spent the next 2 1/2 years fucking her for free.
There's a girl I see at an upscale club in Detroit. It's the same price every time for ITC and she has no interest meeting for OTC. I've seen her 4 times this year so far for a total of $1,200. Each session is $300. Pricey for ITC in Detroit but not pricey at this club. I can go down the road to another club and get the same menu from an equally attractive girl for at least $100 less but this girl provides a high level of service and is nice, that's why I keep coming back.
Without getting off topic too much, the advantages to my approach are;
•any girl that I want, she will be at my side the whole time
•the dances will be higher mileage after the rainstorm you give her on stage
•you are the center of attention
•dancers think you are a baller, and they are practically begging to go back to your house that night
Like I said though, I'm spending way too much. I grew up in the dope game, so my friends were making good money and buying expensive ass shit and flossing. I guess that kind of influenced me growing up. I'm guess I'm kind of different from you guys when it comes to the strip clubs. To each his own.
But yes I'm gonna cut back.
Or are you slanging so much dope 20k ain't nothin' to a playa?
Sounds like a bragging douche.
You sound like a butthurt PL. Perhaps if you spent more your CF wouldn't have "dumped" you lol.
@butterman- I can relate to your friend!
I've been seeing my ATF since earlier this year and am probably around $4K spent on her...though I definitely plan on slowing down how much I spend on her for the rest of the year.
I will cut back significantly when the time comes for that (wife, kids, etc).
At Jimmy's in Chicago Heights a couple of weeks ago, after midnight on a Thursday night, a beautiful black dancer was on stage. Everything about her was on fleek: gorgeous face, stylish glasses, perfect body, including C cups with multiple glow-in-the-dark nipple piercings.
A young black guy on one side of the stage showered her with at least $100 in singles. I threw another single on the pile and said to her "He and I just made it *rain* up in here!"
Strip club is for when you want to look them all over and select which ever one strikes you that night. Strip club is not good for when you already are committed to one girl.
Myself, when traveling I'll be setting up girls for lingerie modeling photo sessions, where an overnighter is implied. Not there yet though.
If you want to find other girls, go to other strip clubs, and best is ones out of town.
If this girl is the one you mentioned before, I believe she is fantastic to be with.
Some of the girls from our own underground Mexican Bar circuit I have referred to as the "Beloved Latina Escorts". Any time you are around them, they really effect you. So as they give of themselves to so many, they really are beloved.
Good Luck,
SJG
http://doxyspotting.com/?p=116166
I'm sorry but it is hard for me to believe that someone would spend that much on a stripper. With that kind of dough I would think there would better options.
I think I spend excessively in strip clubs but nowhere near what you say you're doing. My trips to good clubs aren't as frequent as I would like so when I do get the opportunity I go "all out" or at least "all out" for me.
SJG I like the strip club atmosphere. The club I go to is a make it rain club, so I fit in quite well. There's other girls there I like too.
But I also don't claim to be out $20k on a stripper. That would make me pathetic and a loser.
If my CF did leave me for you... Good riddance, but she didn't.
Some guys will buy up an hour or two of the dancer's, time. two hours is 720. Tip her well, dinner, hotel and gifts and it would be easy to hit 20K.
Not my preference but I won't fault a man that does it as long as he realizes how much money he is dropping
I'm not faulting. Just not believing.
Maybe it's because it's way out of my league, but it seems bizarre to just throw that kind of money away.
Mr. Deuce is right though, I wish I had better stories on how I spend my money. Some of you seem to be so mad that I'm spending that much, it's almost like I'm spending your money or something lol. Get over it.
Not mad at all. Like I said before...
I don't believe you/never have, and I don't know why you care so much about whether I believe you.
But I'm the one that needs to get a life. LOL
I wrote that I believe a few have spent that much. You disagree but then list a few you believe did so.
Larryfisherman
I don't understand making it rain. Isn't it easier for everyone to just hand her the money? What do you get out of that?
The make it rain seems something that young people mostly are into - my "assumption" is that it may have been popularized by the rappers and as it's often the case young people copy it - it seems to just be a way to draw attention to one's self (show off) which seems to be an integral part of the rap/hip-hop scene - just my opinion though.
I'm just saying I don't believe you. Why do you care what I think?
I've heard I'm getting terrible value for my money. Newsflash: you pay a girl to dance on you, there is no value in the strip clubs. I've stopped worrying about value a long time ago.
We all make 350k. What's 5% of 350k?
Bingo! Pretty darn close
To answer your question in the original post, the most I have probably spent on one dancer was probably $1500 over the course of about nine months. Mostly ITC but a couple of OTC encounters.
SJG
http://doxyspotting.com/?p=112680
I always have the conversation with them about how much more they can make OTC vs ITC. Then we start meeting OTC and almost never go back to ITC. The Club should have you on salary the kind of money you are bringing in for them. So why spend the money on the Club. Why not spend it all on her. I think what you are doing is ok but it could be better for both of you if you just went OTC instead and took her out to nice restaurants, shopping, whatever she wants and turned it into a GFE instead of a P4P relationship.
Some guys do deliberately keep their women P4P. Really it is more like keeping them on a retainer, the European Mistress System.
If you keep her on retainer, she might remain available to you, even if you don't see her regularly. Where as if she is completely civilianized she will want you to be seeing her regularly and exclusively, and she will manipulate your emotions or cause upsets to make it go this way.
And the expert here in handling women is Jestrite50.
SJG
http://doxyspotting.com/?p=108910
LOL
Quit while you are ahead Larry. I think there may be one or two people who aren't yet convinced that you are full of it. The more you write, the less likely that will be the case.
@25 - Yes. I think douche sums it up pretty well. But he isn't even worth the effort to type "bag"
When I was young and worked for someone else, I was much less careful with my money than I am in my old age. Now that I work for myself, each dollar just seems to represent more blood, sweat and tears than it once did. Of course, I didn't have to fight off some PL trying to finger my butt for the money, but sometimes it feels like it.
As to the veracity of Nina's claims, I don't doubt it, but I do think she's is an outlier as a non-extras girl banking in an extras town. Those extras girls can make for stiff competition, and the average customer in the D expects a lot for his money. Still, in my experience a really attractive and professional dancer can do well in any environment. And they better, because their lifetime earning potential in that environment is extremely limited (gotta make all you can in the window you have).
Yeah Mersault I would say I probably averaged 1K per visit.
Well Nina the last time I was in Detroit I PMed you, and I got no response....
@Nina
Show us your tits