Spending money on a favorite

I normally don't see my OTC girls ITC anymore. What's the point? They get more $ if you pay them OTC cause they don't have to cut it with the club. Plus you can do way more on the whole OTC than ITC.

Sorry if I wasn't clear, I'm just talking about spending on her ITC. I spent 20K on her ITC.

One chick has blown me four times this year ITC, for a total of about $800, so I guess that's the most I've ever spent on a single stripper in a year. The year is half over (at midnight tonight), so I suppose that total might go to $1600 or so by the end of the year. Spending $20K on one woman in four months, or on *all* women in a year, is unimaginable to me.

I doubt I've ever spent 20K on any one girl in their lifetime. I do suspect I spent 5K on several dancers.

(1) The CF, over 15 weeks last fall and winter, over 5 visits. (2) You spent 2,130% more than I did. (3) No. (4) You might need to seek some help. (5) Agree with mrrock.

" Spending $20K on one woman in four months, or on *all* women in a year, is unimaginable to me."

yeah, that's the first thing that came to my mind/head when i read this thread

Some of that 20K was making it rain, maybe like 12-15K was making it rain. Over the past four months I see her ITC on average of once a week. I definitely need to scale back though. If I keep this pace up for a year, that will be half my income going to her. Luckily I have no wife, kids, or GF right now.

"maybe like 12-15K was making it rain"
I am, for once in my life, speechless.

Yes mr. deuce 12-15K making it rain, but it wasn't in one visit, it's over a 4 month period where I saw her on average of once a week. The most I made it rain on her in one visit is probably like 3K.

I know I spend too much money, but hell I'm young, make great money, got no financial obligations besides myself. I can afford to do that right now. From the time I walk in the club till the time I leave, my CF doesn't leave my side, and I'm usually there for 3 or so hours. But yes I will cut down my money spending in the future.

Enough about me though, I want to hear what you guys spend on your favorite girl!

I believe this about as much as I believe Juice has a $4,000 bankroll for online poker, or that Nina has a guy dropping thousands on her in a non-extras club in an extras friendly city.

As usual I'll play along.

$800 on 1 night in Vegas. I actually got a bargain because the girl spent 7 straight hours with me and I spent the next 2 1/2 years fucking her for free.

There's a girl I see at an upscale club in Detroit. It's the same price every time for ITC and she has no interest meeting for OTC. I've seen her 4 times this year so far for a total of $1,200. Each session is $300. Pricey for ITC in Detroit but not pricey at this club. I can go down the road to another club and get the same menu from an equally attractive girl for at least $100 less but this girl provides a high level of service and is nice, that's why I keep coming back.

Shailynn I don't think 20K over a third of a year is the end of the world. Hell, there are some rappers and athletes that make it rain 100K in one visit!

Without getting off topic too much, the advantages to my approach are;
•any girl that I want, she will be at my side the whole time
•the dances will be higher mileage after the rainstorm you give her on stage
•you are the center of attention
•dancers think you are a baller, and they are practically begging to go back to your house that night

Like I said though, I'm spending way too much. I grew up in the dope game, so my friends were making good money and buying expensive ass shit and flossing. I guess that kind of influenced me growing up. I'm guess I'm kind of different from you guys when it comes to the strip clubs. To each his own.

But yes I'm gonna cut back.

People making $20k/yr vote democrat regardless of who the candidate is.

So do you drop 20k in the club and live with your mom?

Or are you slanging so much dope 20k ain't nothin' to a playa?

Larry I have a friend who you remind me of. He is younger than me. He's black and does the sterotypical shit in the SC when we go together. Making it rain on different chicks and spending about 500-600 when he goes. I just go to the stage and tuck a $5 and get out of there spending about $200. But I go way more often than he does and spend most of my stripper money OTC. Different strokes for different folks!

$20k in 4 months? Probably could have got the same action for less than $5k.

Sounds like a bragging douche.

"sounds like a bragging douche"

You sound like a butthurt PL. Perhaps if you spent more your CF wouldn't have "dumped" you lol.

@butterman- I can relate to your friend!

$20k is pretty damn steep, I'm pretty sure my career spend hasn't been that much in my years of being in this hobby.

I've been seeing my ATF since earlier this year and am probably around $4K spent on her...though I definitely plan on slowing down how much I spend on her for the rest of the year.

ITC? I am not sure. Overall? I hooked up with a beautiful 18 YO back in 1999 and still get together with her regularly ITC and OTC. .

@shailynn- I ain't in the dope game anymore, that was just as a teen. I'm just saying my environment growing up made me how I am today (spending a lot of money unnecessarily). I live in a house with three other people, and we split the payments in four. I got no kids, no wife, no girlfriend. I make over six figures, so literally I got a lot of money to spend. I should probably save some of it, but hell YOLO. I can't take this money with me when I die.

I will cut back significantly when the time comes for that (wife, kids, etc).

I *know* that I spent at least 15K on my ATF in one year, so in the three or four years we were fucking regularly, I can see where the total might have gotten up into the 40K range.

That was all OTC though.

Maybe you need to send out 1099s you might not be making as much as you think when you get your tax bill, come April 15 2017. No deductions figure more than 25% gone.

1099? I doubt that would be worth it. She would need to pay taxes and would expect more money to make up the difference.

Here's my only rainmaking story:

At Jimmy's in Chicago Heights a couple of weeks ago, after midnight on a Thursday night, a beautiful black dancer was on stage. Everything about her was on fleek: gorgeous face, stylish glasses, perfect body, including C cups with multiple glow-in-the-dark nipple piercings.

A young black guy on one side of the stage showered her with at least $100 in singles. I threw another single on the pile and said to her "He and I just made it *rain* up in here!"

Once you've seen her OTC, why do you even go back to her strip club? Just set up OTC times with her, for free or for money. You can do a better job on her in bed when you have more time, and some food.

Strip club is for when you want to look them all over and select which ever one strikes you that night. Strip club is not good for when you already are committed to one girl.

Myself, when traveling I'll be setting up girls for lingerie modeling photo sessions, where an overnighter is implied. Not there yet though.

If you want to find other girls, go to other strip clubs, and best is ones out of town.

If this girl is the one you mentioned before, I believe she is fantastic to be with.

Some of the girls from our own underground Mexican Bar circuit I have referred to as the "Beloved Latina Escorts". Any time you are around them, they really effect you. So as they give of themselves to so many, they really are beloved.

Good Luck,
SJG

http://doxyspotting.com/?p=116166

I haven't believed much of what OP has posted since day 1. He has been a pretty good troll though.

I'm sorry but it is hard for me to believe that someone would spend that much on a stripper. With that kind of dough I would think there would better options.

Larry - keep doin you - if you have a good income and small expenses do what makes you happy. At the end of the day the only person than can please you is yourself.

I think I spend excessively in strip clubs but nowhere near what you say you're doing. My trips to good clubs aren't as frequent as I would like so when I do get the opportunity I go "all out" or at least "all out" for me.

Flagooner you're a pathetic old man, stop worrying about what I spend, and get a life!!! BTW your ex CF is with me right now, she just informed me you're a cheap old bastard who can't get it up anymore, that's why she "dumped" you!!!!

SJG I like the strip club atmosphere. The club I go to is a make it rain club, so I fit in quite well. There's other girls there I like too.

Yes. I am pathetic and old. Cheap too. No denying that.

But I also don't claim to be out $20k on a stripper. That would make me pathetic and a loser.

If my CF did leave me for you... Good riddance, but she didn't.

If she was his wife, he would be spending far more than 20K. I don't doubt that a few on this board spend that much on a favorite or on favorites. I've known men that took out loans for this hobby. At my favorite club, it costs 180 for half an hour. add in the entrance fee, the drink minimum and a few tips and you are over 200. Do this once a week and it becomes over 10K in a year.
Some guys will buy up an hour or two of the dancer's, time. two hours is 720. Tip her well, dinner, hotel and gifts and it would be easy to hit 20K.
Not my preference but I won't fault a man that does it as long as he realizes how much money he is dropping

I'm not faulting. Just not believing.

Maybe it's because it's way out of my league, but it seems bizarre to just throw that kind of money away.

Larry-- the people here don't have anything against you. It's just that the claim you're making is hard to believe, that's why so many people have questioned it

I have nothing against the OP and believe his outlandish claim. Contrary to K, I think the only TUSCLers who have squandered this much money on one stripper in just a few months are the OP, JS69, and gawker -- but the last two have better stories to tell for their money.

I think the thing is I seem to be the only one that makes it rain on here. More than half of the money I spend is making it rain. Maybe it's just a black thing. Me and my black friends make it rain pretty regularly, it's not strange to us. Hell the clubs I go to, if you're not throwing lots of money, you're not gonna get any attention.

Mr. Deuce is right though, I wish I had better stories on how I spend my money. Some of you seem to be so mad that I'm spending that much, it's almost like I'm spending your money or something lol. Get over it.

Not mad at all. Like I said before...

I don't believe you/never have, and I don't know why you care so much about whether I believe you.

But I'm the one that needs to get a life. LOL

This is the last time I'm gonna address you Flagooner. You always bitch and complain in my threads, I finally decided to do some troll feeding in this thread. I don't care if you believe me Flagooner, it's clear to me you wish you made more money. Have a good night!

20k in 4 months??? OMG...you're doomed.

Mr deuce
I wrote that I believe a few have spent that much. You disagree but then list a few you believe did so.
Larryfisherman
I don't understand making it rain. Isn't it easier for everyone to just hand her the money? What do you get out of that?

@ K:

The make it rain seems something that young people mostly are into - my "assumption" is that it may have been popularized by the rappers and as it's often the case young people copy it - it seems to just be a way to draw attention to one's self (show off) which seems to be an integral part of the rap/hip-hop scene - just my opinion though.

Sorry. I didn't realize I was bitching or complaining.

I'm just saying I don't believe you. Why do you care what I think?

K: You're quite right. You said "a few" and I named a few, which is not "contrary" to you at all. Point taken.

To LF- Go V told you the truth but you seem to be angry at anyone that questions you , and it seems that you have had an issue with most of the older more respected members here, do you ever say gee maybe I need to try something different, maybe try a different approach. Just sayin.

@K- I don't know man, my friends were doing it, so I just started doing it. Then it became addictive. There's a certain rush I get knowing all eyes are on me.

I've heard I'm getting terrible value for my money. Newsflash: you pay a girl to dance on you, there is no value in the strip clubs. I've stopped worrying about value a long time ago.

^ and cook me meals too :)

^ and do my calculus homework, too :) :)

I can believe Larry on the 20k in four months, because I know I'm between 15k-20k in the last four months... just not all on one girl. But on my favorite, who'd I'd say has been my favorite for maybe the last six weeks, representing about 3-4 trips to the club, I'd say I've spent about 3k on her in that time.

I'm not sure why this is so unbelievable. According to the US bureau of Labor Statistics, the typical household spends 5% of their budget on entertainment.

We all make 350k. What's 5% of 350k?

Bingo! Pretty darn close

@SamPepys- she does whatever I want OTC, that includes cooking :)

From one black brother to another, that is an insane amount of money to be spending on one dancer in such a short time span. It would be different if that amount was spent on a variety of dancers. Me personally I would never invest that kind of money on any woman, stripper or civilian, unless I had long term plans on marrying her. If I had the money that you had, I'd rather give that amount to my Mom or donate some of that to a local shelter or some other charity or something. But it is your money so blow it how you like lol. As long as your bills are taken care of, live your life.

To answer your question in the original post, the most I have probably spent on one dancer was probably $1500 over the course of about nine months. Mostly ITC but a couple of OTC encounters.

I think I've spent around 2k on my CF in the last 3 to 4 months. I don't really keep track of my total spending, but I do tend to spend near the same amount on each trip.

Larry, the girl makes you pay ITC because a strip club is a business and it is how she earns her money. But why she doesn't charge you OTC is really simple. She wants you to civilianize her. She wants what ordinary girls want, because she too is an ordinary girl. She thinks very highly of you.

SJG

http://doxyspotting.com/?p=112680

Larry,
I always have the conversation with them about how much more they can make OTC vs ITC. Then we start meeting OTC and almost never go back to ITC. The Club should have you on salary the kind of money you are bringing in for them. So why spend the money on the Club. Why not spend it all on her. I think what you are doing is ok but it could be better for both of you if you just went OTC instead and took her out to nice restaurants, shopping, whatever she wants and turned it into a GFE instead of a P4P relationship.

And yes mrrock is right on !

When I'm out paying to have an affair I always use twenty dollars to tip under the table. As the sun is about to arise on another glorious morning if I scored my crack head then I will lavish her with fifty dollars

Larry, I think the girl wants to civilianize you, and I think you know this, and this is why you mostly see her ITC only.

Some guys do deliberately keep their women P4P. Really it is more like keeping them on a retainer, the European Mistress System.

If you keep her on retainer, she might remain available to you, even if you don't see her regularly. Where as if she is completely civilianized she will want you to be seeing her regularly and exclusively, and she will manipulate your emotions or cause upsets to make it go this way.

And the expert here in handling women is Jestrite50.

SJG

http://doxyspotting.com/?p=108910

I just want to reiterate something. 20K is a estimate. It's not official. I don't keep a spreadsheet or anything like that. I'm bad with math. It might actually be closer to 15K. You get the picture though, I spent a lot of money.

^^^Hyperbole and bullshit go back to stripper web you douchbag.

Please twentyfive don't send me any more PM's, I'm not gonna read it this time.

LOL

Quit while you are ahead Larry. I think there may be one or two people who aren't yet convinced that you are full of it. The more you write, the less likely that will be the case.

@25 - Yes. I think douche sums it up pretty well. But he isn't even worth the effort to type "bag"

Larryfisherman, please let me know when you're in town ;) lol.

And shailynn on another strip club site the guys were doubting my earnings so I posted pics of clock out slips that showed me doing several hours at a time in the champagne room. This was when the club was under different management, no extras, cameras in the VIP. Some of the guys here who used to frequent that website probably remember me posting my proof. I am a stripper, idk why it's so hard to believe guys have spent thousands on me. That is my job, to get guys to spend as much money as possible. Lol

Back when the DS was a stripper, I spent about $700-$1K on her per club visit. That involved her staying with me for 6 hours or so. And I saw her itc 2-3 times per month. So in around a four month period I'd spend around $8-10K on her itc. I spent aprox twice that amount on other dates and trips in the same time period. It's hard for me to understand why you'd spend $20K in four months just to see a dancer itc.

@larryfisherman, more power to you. I'm not sure what you see in "making it rain" myself, but if that's your thing, that's your thing. I don't frequent the rain maker clubs and hopefully you don't start frequenting my type of club. I don't want you driving up the price. I don't think your numbers are that crazy though. You said you were going once a week for 4 months. That only works out to about $1250 per visit. That's on the high end, but not so outlandish that it would cause a scene. I never go to the club with less than $1000, but I try not to spend it all.

When I was young and worked for someone else, I was much less careful with my money than I am in my old age. Now that I work for myself, each dollar just seems to represent more blood, sweat and tears than it once did. Of course, I didn't have to fight off some PL trying to finger my butt for the money, but sometimes it feels like it.

As to the veracity of Nina's claims, I don't doubt it, but I do think she's is an outlier as a non-extras girl banking in an extras town. Those extras girls can make for stiff competition, and the average customer in the D expects a lot for his money. Still, in my experience a really attractive and professional dancer can do well in any environment. And they better, because their lifetime earning potential in that environment is extremely limited (gotta make all you can in the window you have).

@JS69- I actually think it was probably closer to 15K, 20K was my first estimate, but I don't think it was that much. I admit it was way too much money, but everytime we're OTC I don't pay for shit, plus IMO she's the hottest stripper in Los Angeles (as far as my tastes go). Plus those are numbers are inflated because the first time I went there, I lost my mind and spent 5K that visit. I settled down a little bit on my visits after that.

Yeah Mersault I would say I probably averaged 1K per visit.

Well Nina the last time I was in Detroit I PMed you, and I got no response....

@Nina

Show us your tits

Personally I think it's more extreme that you were going once a week that it was that you were spending $1K a visit. I can totally see a $1K strip trip. But a lot of customers go once a week so even that's not that extreme.

@Dominic- it was irrational spending, but no regrets. You live and you learn. That girl has me wrapped around her fingers :)