Too chivalrous for a SC or to each their own ?
Papi_Chulo
Miami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
From a recent review of Club O in Harvey, IL:
"... Fathers Day Night. Sunny was the best dancer I saw that night. A petite African American Dancer standing 5 feet, weighing at a self-professed 95 lbs, she was a doll. I have an allure to petite, cute, yet sexy African American women so they are often a no brainer to me. She was young and her breast were perky B cups with nipple rings. Her butt was so supple and sweet with unblemished skin that I just wanted to hold her. And that's exactly what I did. I got to the back after a chat and asked to hold her as we waited for the next song. She happily obliged. I still delight as I remember holding her in my arms and her playing along and resting her head on my shoulder.
Strippers help people live out there fantasies, so as visitors to the strip club, it's important that we expand upon those fantasies. Take the time having conversation, complementing, and feeling like a knight in shining armor. Have those interactions with an exotic dancer that you wish you could have with that coworker or girl you like. I wanted to feel like a warrior king as I held her hips firmly yet letting them wiggle as her supple ass gyrated on my erect and clothed penis. I didn't wear any underwear (daring I know) and it didn't freak her out. She grabbed it and squeezed it through the pants even sliding her ass up and down the shaft. She was giving me a full ride and I loved it.
In the end, the dance was amazing, but two dances (two songs) for $60 was a little pricey considering that same $60 gets 5 dances at SkyBox. No regrets though. It all ended too soon. I maintained my chivalrous experience as I helped her dress, putting her shoes on for her. I should have asked to undress her before the dance and dress her after too. One of the most memorable things was when I asked her if I could carry her out. : ) She let me! Every man should experience feeling like a bad-ass as they walk out of a room carrying hot woman and I DID! Find a petite stripper, if you can't handle heavier weight and try it. (With good form, don't fuck your back up).
A little dead, but I liked it that way. It's more personal and the girls aren't in a rush ..."
https://www.tuscl.net/club.php?id=547
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To each their own, glad he had fun and found what he was looking for at that SC.
If my best buddy likes the experience of smoking pot, I'm really not worried about him. If he has some stresses and smoking some pot here and there helps him deal, that's great.
If my best buddy likes the experience of shooting heroin, I'm worried. It may be the experience he's after, but it's likely to be self-destructive, and whatever pain he's trying to cover up, he's likely making even worse ... I'll intervene and see if I can't steer him towards a different way to cope.
We don't know the guy who wrote the review. But if it's a matter of, he just has an innocent itch to scratch, and he's doing it -- hell, not my thing, but fine. I just suspect -- based on the fact that I got a C- in Psychology 101 back in college -- that someone working this fantasy through may be covering over some damage and making it even worse in the process, on top of the disaster over-romanticizing strippers and lead to. Or, in other words, if this little ritual of his is his pot, great; if it's heroin (which I strongly suggest it is), he's way better off re-thinking what he's doing
While I try not to judge, I think him carrying her out of VIP is a bit less demeaning than offering her $$ to give him a BJ or FS. But others may see it differently.
AND he filled that chick's ego to astronomical levels since he didn't smash and now she may up her prices on unfortunate future clients. $30 was already bad enough.
What happens in a back room should stay in the back room - if you want to keep others from making judgements. This guy decided to post his experience online - and he seems pumped about it. The creepy stuff in the back room - dressing the dancer - holding her - are best left unknown.
When he carried her out - it was making a statement to anyone who saw it. Not sure if he was trying to show off his "conquest" or what - but that's where I think he went way off the rails.
Just my view -
^^^That question that the dancers always ask first is starting to make more sense to me know. I've often wondered why someone would need full privacy of a VIP. Now the picture is starting to make more sense. Maybe *some* things are better done in private.
:)
It's weird, but beyond the weirdness of it, the thing that's stopping me from taking a position of "hey, just because it's not YOUR thing, doesn't mean it's bad, you probably do plenty of weird things yourself", is because, if I put myself in the place of the PL, if I were doing these kinds of things it would be coming from an unhealthy, needy place. Again, I suppose there's a chance that the OP is merely living out his fantasy and then moving on, but I suspect he's more addressing some emotional pain and needs that really should be addressed another way. I'm not judging him for his weird fantasy, lots of guys have fantasies I'm not remotely interested in, but I never ignore my creepy-meter either, I think there's deeper problems
There's definitely a deep seated need for something - and I'm not sure what. I hope it stops with carrying strippers out of VIP.