OT: Fuckboy?
GACA
Un-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
Well I'm into one of the other strippers and tell the girl I'm busy. So the (ex)CF walks up to me and says "I don't give a fuck about your money, fuck you, you're a fuckboy anway"
I've heard the term, don't know what it means.
Urban dictionary got too many. Definitions.
But ya thought that emotional outburst was funny, never had it happen before. It was amusing and I was more than apt to handle it because of shared info in this forum.
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I mean, the insult isn't obvious.
SJG
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These girls are in competition for my attention because I'm not cheap in the least bit. I typically focus on just one at a time and when I come in whoever I'm with makes more than just goal.
She was butt hurt because she thought she had it like that (me under her spell), and realized she didn't and it hurt her ego. This chick is married with kids. Probably not the best marriage but really she was enjoying what she thought was a hopelessly infatuated customer.
So...ya she wanted something else alright. Easy money from the clubs biggest and most reliable spender. Don't get it twisted.
I mean they want more from you than just money. That you might have deep pockets is appealing to them. But they still want more than that.
Understand that this is just from girls' POV. This does not really mean that all you are is a "fuck boy". But this is all they can understand.
My own feeling is that it is very hard from women to understand men, where as vice versa it can go easier.
SJG
If she ran over and said "You just fuck me - and don't want a relationship! All you do is give me lots of money!" That would have been more effective - and to the point. But it wouldn't really be an insult either -
I don't think you should pay much attention to it. The girls are just saying that you are someone who knows how to get to them. So I don't think it has anything to do with getting to your money. It is just that when you get under a girl's skin she is going to want a life long relationship. So she wants everything. It is not just about money, though it also includes money, all of your money.
If one wants a good experience with a girl, one has to get under her skin. That she is being paid does not make any difference here. So congratulations on learning how to do that.
So this is just how it goes, that eventually the will start circling the wagons and put out an alert against you.
You talked before about 'pimp moves', and that rubbed me the wrong way because it is just posturing, instead of being yourself.
You talked before about finding the 'Queen Bee', and that also rubbed me the wrong way because it means allowing yourself to get wound into the drama of a group of women, and invariably becoming like them. I would never recommend this.
But that they are now calling you fuckboy is not something I would worry about. You are at least 18yo, and so are they.
And of Nina introducing the idea of immaturity, I would not worry about that either. People always use that when someone is not doing what they think they should be doing. It just means that you have not matured into what they want you to be.
And women in particular are always directing that at men. It is standard response when they encounter someone who is hard for them to manipulate.
So I would just say, continue to be yourself and engage with women as you feel it best. And if things are drying up at one strip club. Find another one, or find some other kind of a venue.
SJG