Not to long ago I got tired of my house in the burbs and moved downtown to a much smaller/newer/nicer high rise apartment. Recently a young lady moved in on my floor who for a variety of reasons doesn't really fit into this complex. I'm about 95% sure someone else is paying for her apartment (not out of the goodness of their heart) which suggests to me she might be available for the right price. We've flirted a bit on the elevator but she is too young and too attractive for me to get naturally. She's definitely attractive enough that I would pay for it if possible.
Push my luck and try and steer it that way or is this a case of 'shitting where you eat'?
I feel like if you hit on her and she IS for sale, she'll help the process along. If she's not for sale she'll write it off as "another older guy who hits on me wherever I go".
Chicks dig older guys. I'm 25, and I got this 18 year old who is all over me. I'm not gonna hit it because she's too young for me though. I would say go for it. Judged by your posts, I assumed you were a younger guy (in your 30's).
I would try and not make a move. I wouldn't want the awkwardness regardless of how it turned out. I would probably wouldn't be able to resist making an attempt though.
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My son had a similar situation the apartments where he live and he went for it. They went out to dinner and of course the conversation got around to "what do you do for a living" My son is pretty savvy IT guy. She claimed to be a porn star and asked him if he would build her a web site.
He called me for advice. He has built a lot of web sites but never that kind. I told him to go for it. That he might even get some of the goodies. Well he procrastinated and the next thing you know, she got evicted.
You should adopt a cute little dachshund and ask her to go on walks in the park with you and little jester214.
There are three possible outcomes. First, if she a pro that will emerge in your conversations while walking little jester214. Second, she isn't a pro but she will fall in love with your wiener dog and then with you. Third, the worst possible case is that you flame out with her end up with a dachshund buddy!
I say go for it but approach it like you would a normal civvy. You said you've flirted already so see if you can take it further. If she's for sale she'll let you know at that point. If she's not she'll either say yes or no.
I think the unknown here is, to what extent do we PLs pick up "she can be bought" vibes from young women, based more on wishful thinking than anything else? I don't know the answer, but I have a feeling it's "far more than we think" ... we THINK we have finely attuned floozy-detectors, but I think we sometimes see things that aren't there ... and for me, at least, it would be pretty horrible to misread the signs and offer a civilian money for sex.
In a similar type of situation, what I'll do is start with light fun conversation, then bring it around to partying, and if they engage on partying, somehow work in a light joking reference to going to the strip club. If they bite on that, they're hooked, and you can try to close. If not, I'd rather let one go, than risk pitching for-pay to a civilian
I think I'm more concerned with how close she is more than offending her or being mistaken. Do I want to live down the hall from a woman I'm paying for sex? Will I get a pissed of sugar daddy banging on my door? Among other possible issues.
Ah, that would not be a concern of mine, I don't think... but I've never thought any of the "don't shit where you sleep" rules -- like not dating at the office -- were worth following. Then again, even as I type this, you've got me thinking about having a potentially unstable for-pay girl living so close... not so much the sugar daddy banging on the door, but these girls do tend to be swirling in drama.
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Say she has a sugar daddy (or 2) financing her that much, it may be a big price to pay to get into her panties.
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As for the original question, I agree with Lone Wolf. You shouldn't do it. But I probably would.
He called me for advice. He has built a lot of web sites but never that kind. I told him to go for it. That he might even get some of the goodies. Well he procrastinated and the next thing you know, she got evicted.
So strike while the iron is hot.
There are three possible outcomes. First, if she a pro that will emerge in your conversations while walking little jester214. Second, she isn't a pro but she will fall in love with your wiener dog and then with you. Third, the worst possible case is that you flame out with her end up with a dachshund buddy!
So it is a "win! win! win!" strategy!
Dachshund system rules!
In a similar type of situation, what I'll do is start with light fun conversation, then bring it around to partying, and if they engage on partying, somehow work in a light joking reference to going to the strip club. If they bite on that, they're hooked, and you can try to close. If not, I'd rather let one go, than risk pitching for-pay to a civilian