First hustle of the visit
gammanu95
My casual drinking is your alcohol poisoning.
It seems like everyone who gets the dance invite before getting their first drink has to turn it down. IME, that girl who starts before you sit or get a drink is one you'd rather turn away anyway. Usually, I make the excuse of needing a few minutes to unwind. Sometimes a mediocre girl asks (after I got my drink) while the better ones are occupied, and I will buy a dance or two just to show that I have money and I want to spend it. How does it go for everyone else?
Is the girl is available to ask first because she is unattractive, or gives lousy dances (one and done)
Do you always turn away a first dance, or does it make difference if they sit and chat?
Unless you're there to see that one specific girl ( DS, CF, ATF, feature performer), what else do you figure into your decision -making?
Is the girl is available to ask first because she is unattractive, or gives lousy dances (one and done)
Do you always turn away a first dance, or does it make difference if they sit and chat?
Unless you're there to see that one specific girl ( DS, CF, ATF, feature performer), what else do you figure into your decision -making?
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Also - in a club like Tootsies in Miami; one may not see the dancer again that visit or maybe until 2 or 3 hours later and thus in that case I'm more prone to accept.
In many clubs the less good-looking dancers will often jump on a custy as soon as he walks in b/f he's had a chance to see what she's competing with.
However, on my last two trips (both times my CF was not working), I was approached seconds after I got in the door and had just sat down at the bar. Did not even get my beer ordered when she came up behind me and asked if I wanted company. Hell, my eyes had not even adjusted to the darkness of the club yet!
I accepted her offer and we chatted for a while. She was somewhat attractive, blond, 30ish. Turned out she was not really my type, too damn chatty, and an expert on everything! Had a couple of dances with her, which were actually pretty good, then I moved on.
So, the next week same thing happened....After the previous experience I had made up my mind to turn away the first dancer.
This quick to approach dancer was actually a very pretty, mid 20's blond.
But, she had approached me from behind and asked if I wanted company just as I sat down.
I was so set on sticking to my new rule, I turned her offer down. (I now regret this choice)
I still had a good time with another dancer, she just was not as pretty as the first girl.
So, for me at least, the rule to "always turn down the first offer" is not always the best decision!
Just got to learn when to break the rule.
We really hit it off and I ended up seeing her OTC for a couple months. I previously spoke of her here. When we met OTC, the moment she entered my house she was naked and all over me! As with all of them things eventually went south and I quit seeing her but when I think of her I think of a quote from Bladerunner. "The light that burns twice as bright burns half as long!" And to paraphrase, we burned very brightly!
I really miss that chick!
Can't recall anything great coming from those types, but some of my firsts after being there for a few have been exciting encounters.
If the dancer is my CF - that's different.
It's kinda like power hitters in baseball, a lot of them will always pass on the first pitch even when it may be a perfect strike.
Ever call a contractor to do work to your home or business? Get scared when one says "I can start tomorrow" because when you call a good one he's already on a job and can't start yours until later.
Good analogy but there are exceptions as my experience above proves. YMMV always applies.
At clubs I frequent, where I know how things work, I'm acquainted with the lineup (minus the ever-flowing influx of new girls, who might have started since my last trip), it's totally different:
- If I made an appointment with my CF or ATF, I grab her the moment I see her. Often, she'll be at the bar waiting. I need no warm-up period.
- If I don't already have an appointment, that means CF isn't there, and I'm on the hunt for an emergency backup CF, or even a replacement CF. In that case, if a sizzling hot new girl or a veteran who I've been considering for an interview approaches me right away -- carpe diem! You never know when you'll get another chance, and again, if I am already comfortable with the club, I do not need a warm-up or cool-down period. Any other girl gets a friendly hello and then dismissed
At my regular SCs, I follow subraman's process. If its a prearranged date, then date stripper unconditionally. Else it is random stripper night/new face/lets find dancer #2.