Telephone privacy
gawker
Older than dirt
Last week I brought my ATF to a facility for drug detox. I stopped at a convenience store so she could get quarters for the pay phone inside the place. She was gone about 6 or 7 minutes and when she returned she had just shot up a gram of heroin. On top of several Xanax she had taken she was pretty well blasted. I waited as she went through the intake process and she came back, handed me her pocketbook and her cell phone and asked me to hang on to them.
Yesterday I picked her up after a 5 day stint. When she checked out her personal belongings were given to her and she asked where her phone & bag were. I said I had them in my car. She told me that she had no recollection of checking in and was amazed that I had them.
Now, I had her phone for five days. Should I have checked out her photos, her messages, her other friends? Of course I did. For more than 6 months she has said I'm her only OTC customer and from what I could tell, that's the case.
Her messages with her BF/baby daddy were quite explicit but supported what she told me: he won't see her till she's been clean for 2 weeks. There was a message from a new customer who she's only seen in the club and she says he's BF material - hot, ripped body, owns his own business at age 30. She doesn't view him as P4P material but says he tips very well.
Everything else was all about the constant quest for drugs. I know the first names and phone numbers of about a dozen dealers, for what that's worth.
Her photos included several totally nude selfies, which shed already sent to me. No where near the stuff I found when she left her phone in my car 5 or 6 years ago. A question for the assembled masses: should I have gone through the phone?
Yesterday I picked her up after a 5 day stint. When she checked out her personal belongings were given to her and she asked where her phone & bag were. I said I had them in my car. She told me that she had no recollection of checking in and was amazed that I had them.
Now, I had her phone for five days. Should I have checked out her photos, her messages, her other friends? Of course I did. For more than 6 months she has said I'm her only OTC customer and from what I could tell, that's the case.
Her messages with her BF/baby daddy were quite explicit but supported what she told me: he won't see her till she's been clean for 2 weeks. There was a message from a new customer who she's only seen in the club and she says he's BF material - hot, ripped body, owns his own business at age 30. She doesn't view him as P4P material but says he tips very well.
Everything else was all about the constant quest for drugs. I know the first names and phone numbers of about a dozen dealers, for what that's worth.
Her photos included several totally nude selfies, which shed already sent to me. No where near the stuff I found when she left her phone in my car 5 or 6 years ago. A question for the assembled masses: should I have gone through the phone?
18 comments
Maybe the next question should be "should I have deleted the names/numbers of her dealers?"
A stripper having only one or 2 OTC customers+1 SO isn't impossible. Not all strippers are wild whores. STD risk and emotions can limit them to only handful of customers OTC. If she wanted to be on BP, she would be.
I hope your ATF has a special place in her heart for you. You have done so much for her and you're not even her boyfriend/husband.
Yeah - honorably speaking - you probably shouldn't have gone through the phone, but I don't think there's anyone who couldn't resist doing so. If anything it shows you she has been honest with you which is cool. I think she has a lot of respect for you when she's not wacked out on drugs.
I have looked through the phone of the DS on three separate occasions. I did it because you guys kept insisting that she fucks other customers OTC, and I wanted to be sure. All of her customer
texts concerned meeting itc, and there was no express or implied reference to anything sexual.
It was wrong for both of us to look at their phones. Out strippers have a right to privacy as do we. I regret doing this and I don't think I would ever do it again.
I don't think I would go thru my ATF's phone, however. I might find some things I would not like to see.
I would have written down the names and phone numbers of the dealers and sent that along to the narcotics division. Get a detectives name.