ITC fun and OTC 3 some
jaredlucas
Arizona
Been having some ongoing modest / ITC fun with my ATF at her club for about 6 months.
Visits to the club include paying for floor, VIP dances, drinks etc. VIP is limited to Grinding, HJ, licking, touching. No BJ, FS, DATY in the club - ever. It’s just not on the menu with her. OTC is quite the opposite and includes open season on adult fun. Nothing is off limits however, OTC is pretty much like a civvy date as no money exchanges hands. Of course, I pick up 100% of expenses OTC and most times our dates include very good sex, but not always.
Recently, we have been discussing bringing a third person into the bedroom and subsequently We "picked up" a new girl at the club for an OTC threesome. After broaching the subject with her She agreed and advised of an appropriate gift to leave the club early. I was fine with her gift suggestion and we all left separately to rendezvous at my hotel. My ATF was not really part of the negotiation, but she was there listening to it all. Long story short the 3 some was awesome. After a couple of hours of fun our new friend had to leave. I Provided a parting gift and she left without incident. ATF stayed for a few more hours and we enjoyed some solo fun before she also left. It was all Amazing experience and Can’t wait to repeat.
Here is my point” I Need some etiquette advice
I did not offer a gift of any kind to my ATF for our OTC 3 some as none of our 12-15 OTC meet ups have ever involved any fees. I usually tip her well enough ITC and that seems to be fine with her. On this particular evening however we did not make into the VIP because we left the club early for OTC fun. Should i offer her an "advance tip" when I see her to replace what she might have made in the VIP if we hadn't left early? This would typically be 2-3 benjamins depending on time spent in VIP ... or just let it ride and tip her extra well in the VIP later today? Or proceed as normal?
I'll be seeing her in the club later today and will most certainly be taking in some VIP time with her.
Visits to the club include paying for floor, VIP dances, drinks etc. VIP is limited to Grinding, HJ, licking, touching. No BJ, FS, DATY in the club - ever. It’s just not on the menu with her. OTC is quite the opposite and includes open season on adult fun. Nothing is off limits however, OTC is pretty much like a civvy date as no money exchanges hands. Of course, I pick up 100% of expenses OTC and most times our dates include very good sex, but not always.
Recently, we have been discussing bringing a third person into the bedroom and subsequently We "picked up" a new girl at the club for an OTC threesome. After broaching the subject with her She agreed and advised of an appropriate gift to leave the club early. I was fine with her gift suggestion and we all left separately to rendezvous at my hotel. My ATF was not really part of the negotiation, but she was there listening to it all. Long story short the 3 some was awesome. After a couple of hours of fun our new friend had to leave. I Provided a parting gift and she left without incident. ATF stayed for a few more hours and we enjoyed some solo fun before she also left. It was all Amazing experience and Can’t wait to repeat.
Here is my point” I Need some etiquette advice
I did not offer a gift of any kind to my ATF for our OTC 3 some as none of our 12-15 OTC meet ups have ever involved any fees. I usually tip her well enough ITC and that seems to be fine with her. On this particular evening however we did not make into the VIP because we left the club early for OTC fun. Should i offer her an "advance tip" when I see her to replace what she might have made in the VIP if we hadn't left early? This would typically be 2-3 benjamins depending on time spent in VIP ... or just let it ride and tip her extra well in the VIP later today? Or proceed as normal?
I'll be seeing her in the club later today and will most certainly be taking in some VIP time with her.
5 comments
See if she mentions it when you meet her next. If you give her an extra $100 - tell her it's to thank her for setting up the threesome?
I more or less agree with Cash. If I were you, I would take her to VIP today and give her a little something extra, letting her know when you do how much you appreciated what she did. You want her to be motivated to do something like that again and she's won't be if it costs her money when she does.
Jared.