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Kobe Bryant, he's the one that choked the girl. That's because guys like him and Mike Tyson don't want what they get offered all the time, consensual sex. So what else can they do but violate the girl somehow? Otherwise they just have to run them off.
That movie Showgirls is where I first learned to understand this. It can also be gleaned from the victim testimony in the Mike Tyson rape trial.
No, I don't do anything like that. Sex always involves aspects of domination and submission play. One just has to appreciate and enjoy that. No reason to get into real danger or harm.
SJG
This movie shows a girl, an escort, and a quite likeable girl, who is always getting into the sorts of situations you describe.
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One guy wanted to recreate in a hotel room a murder which happened decades ago at the foot of Mount Fuji. So he had the mountain projected on the wall while he was choking her on the bed. She freaked out and ran off, and then got scolded by the escort agency boss.
Lots of interesting stuff in that movie. But as for most of it, I wouldn't do that.
I like them in high heels and makeup, and I like to help myself without asking while they are asleep. But that's as far as it goes.
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SJG
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While I realize this is basically SJG-baiting, I'll answer seriously: I've choked most of the strippers I've done dances with! As I've said many times, a huge % of strippers are willing to indulge in light domination if they trust the customer; in my less-lucid times, I think some of them like getting spanked or lightly choked more than they like grinding on some guy's hard dick through his shorts. It's all about trust and especially consent, of course.
Subraman, at first your words surprise me. But then I remember that you've posted before about domination and submission.
I'm happy just to re-enter, and then speak soft words to her as I hold on to her wrists while she wakes up startled.
They either say they need to go to the bathroom first, or we just proceed. Either way, I can tell she is just tickled pink about it all and this continues on through the next morning.
SJG
Not all sex is between the legs. Some of it is between the ears. With that said, domination (physical BDSM) and humiliation (mental BDSM) are popular with lots of women. With this dancer the rough stuff got her wet.
Actually, there are people, both women and men, who find being choked very erotic, and their best orgasms come at the moment when they are about to pass out. Obviously, it's a very fine line between sexual gratification and tragedy.
Definitely not my thing!
-->"With that said, domination (physical BDSM) and humiliation (mental BDSM) are popular with lots of women"
Definitely. If you were online dating a few years back, you'd have seen loads and loads of women putting "50 Shades of Gray" in their profiles for favorite books. That was a big blinking green light for me ... and the subsequent dates showed, they were putting that book there because they were interested
And strippers are more adventurous than most. I am pretty sure I've spanked every stripper I've gotten a VIP dance with ... and after they gave consent and I started lightly, the usual reaction from them is "harder!". Exactly same with choking, "harder!" is the usual response to an initial light touch. It's a lot of fun, if you bend that way.
@Dominic77 is correct, it is not all between the legs, it is also between the ears. I would say that most of it is between the ears.
And there are rituals of domination and submission in all human interactions, especially the sexual.
So some people do like to make it into an explicit play and take it quite far. And you know what, the people who are into domination and submission play are so sensitized to it, that they are far less likely to abuse administrative power when they have it.
For myself though, I don't have any interest in mock violence or mechanical restraints. To easy to hurt a girl in restraints. Better just to wrestle with her and pin her down some times. And always before I ejaculate I hold on to her to give her the feeling that her consent never had been a requirement, just a convenience. They really love that kinda stuff, and they say so.
I've explained all of this to dancers at our local clubs, even to some who like to be mechanically restrained. In our local clubs there is no touching, so we make up for it with talk. Only time you can really talk dirty with a girl is when there is some reason that you can't touch. Otherwise she'll see you as being chicken because all you are doing is talking instead of doing.
Keeping them dressed to please and in high heels and makeup keeps them in enough of a submissive role for me.
For others though, yeah, whatever gets you off. Go for it. Just be safe.
SJG
Herbie Hancock - Jazz Fusion Cantelope Island
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Duke Ellington - Satin Doll
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...And God Created Woman (1956) - Official Trailer
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Full Movie, English Subtitles, REALLY GOOD
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Brigitte Bardot - trailer Viva Maria - Anarchist protest song
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Georges Delerue - Viva Maria - L'Irlandaise
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Satin Dolls - Dick Hyman at the Lowrey Organ
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Big Ben Bossa - Dick Hyman at the Lowrey Organ
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Mr. Roboto by Styx, performed on giant '70 Lowrey organ
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Walter Hammel Plays "Alley Cat" On The Lowrey Prestige Organ With Wersi EX-1
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Mike Reed plays "Mack the Knife" on the Hammond Organ
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Mike Reed plays "House of the Rising Sun" on the Hammond Organ
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Barbara Dennerlein on Hammond B3 Organ
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Lori Graves playing Pirates Of The Caribbean on the Lowrey Organ
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Dance Of The Sugar Plum Fairy Organ
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Never choked one in a club. Choked several OTC. I've used a belt to choke a few. Always consensual.
This reminds me of the Chappelle Show - when Dave went for a ride with Wayne Brandy - "Don't make Wayne Brady choke a bitch!"
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