First time OTC tips
Kimi
Illinois
What tips would you give for a first time OTC? Not just with the dancer, but overall first OTC for me.
All I know is not to do it at my house, but a hotel.
What tips do you care to share or what do you wish you knew when you started?
As a bonus, how does it differ when you're out of town on business with limited time to build comfort with the dancer before?
All I know is not to do it at my house, but a hotel.
What tips do you care to share or what do you wish you knew when you started?
As a bonus, how does it differ when you're out of town on business with limited time to build comfort with the dancer before?
19 comments
Lock you phone with a password.
I would keep all my personal information to myself. Real name, address, phone number, employer, marital status, etc.
Lock the door, don't let her unlock it for any reason. If she does, relock it as fast as you can.
If she won't get naked until you pay her, it's a scam. Kick her out and call somebody else.
If she's riding with you (not recommended), don't stop *anywhere* on the way to or from. If she insists you stop, leave her there.
Pull the bedspread and blanket completely off the bed and throw them in the corner. They're likely filthy. If it's not warm enough for just sheets, crank the heat up.
Do your best to make sure she's alone and nobody is following her.
There are a number of threads on the site on this subject. Search for them.
Get to the room before her.
Check the place out to get comfortable. Be aware of the exits. It's like the airplane safety demo - make sure you have two ways to exit - just in case.
When she arrives - use the peep hole to make sure she's alone. I like to roll up a towel - lay it at the base of the door - just in case she's there with muscle to push the door in - they won't see the reflection of your feet as you use the peep hole. Get her in the room - and lock the door right behind her.
Don't leave her alone in the bathroom for more than a few minutes.
Don't leave her in the room alone.
Other than those tips - and the others listed in various threads - relax and have a good time!!!
I did and he went away. She also said she didn't like having a condom in her mouth and asked if I minded if she blew me bareback. I didn't mind at all.
I lock anything I have with me in the safe. The only thing I have in general is my phone.
Others have covered most everything else. I use better chains that will have pools etc and I like to hang out before or after and make use of them
I'll freely admit that I've been doing those things long enough that they might no longer *seem* extreme to me. :)
After I've gotten t to know the woman better and feel I can trust her I may relax some of these but not completely. More than one woman has turned from a known and safe companion to someone not to be trusted.
The events that caused me to take these precautions belong in a different thread.
Don't be passive. Get down to business as soon as you're in the hotel. Otherwise, she will say your time is up regardless if the services were performed.
;)
Totally different philosophy if I were married, and OTCing with a girl who I'd met once for a 30-minute extra. I'd be following more (not all) of the precautions above.