Why dont you want a dance from me???

Am I the only one the hates the question why dont you want a dance? I feel if I say no thank you I dont want a dance that should be enough for you to walk away. Or if I do want a dance from you but just not at that exact moment I may say something like, Im ok right now but whats your name? make sure you come check on me later. But why cant some dancers take a hint? If a guy looks at you and say no thank you 9 times outta ten that means I dont like you. So do they really want the answer to the question they are asking? most guys are nice and dont want to hurt there feelings. But after about 8 years of going to the strip club I did it last night. here is what happened... Girl walks up "want a dance?" (which we all know isnt a good line) I look at her, she a solid 2. "not thank you" with a smile on my face. girl "well damn, why not" me still smiling "I just dont really want a dance right now, but thank you" girl "that is not a reason! well buy me a drink then". the smile slowly goes away, all i can say is "no" the girl gets even more frustrated. "if you not gonna buy me a drink i wanna dance, why the hell dont you want a dance and i dont want to here your bull $hit. you must be gay or something" the smile is completely gone now, but i say this with no anger or expression at all on my face "the reason why i dont want a dance is you are close to the ugliest stripper I have ever seen. but it dont stop there. the least you could do is have some respect for yourself and be in shape if your job is to be naked all day. but you are about 50 pounds over weight. the combination of your weight and face mixed with your bad attitude is why I dont want you anywhere near me..." obviously this went over pretty bad. what made it worse alot of people heard my speech cause we were loud by that time. Good thing for me i had some female friend with me. so when she started to shove they shoved back. After the ordeal she ran to the dressing room crying. to be honest I feel really bad, i didnt want to tell her that but she was too damn persistent!!!