Is it too much to ask of a stripper....
ButterMan
Indianapolis
I went to my doctor the other day to have blood work done. The results were ok but my blood sugar is high (pre diabetes )and cholesterol levels are high. So my Cf/Ds is not your typical stripper. She is a college student studying fitness management I think. But she is workout freak. She is also an instructor /dietitian at LA fitness parttime. So I thought who better to ask for some dieting tips. So I texted her to ask for some advice and her response was "eat more veggies and low card foods fool LoL". Really? So I basically pay this chick's rent every month and I'm not worth a 15 minute phone call when it's do to my health? Is this too much to ask of a stripper?
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When I text strippers they text back, but never call.
"How sharper than a serpent's tooth it is
To have a thankless stripper!"
For most of my ATFs, if I want advice and it's going to require a back-and-forth conversation (as diet advice often does), then the right place to have it is: in the club. I don't expect her to spend an hour pecking long paragraphs on a keyboard, texting me questions, etc. There's a VERY few women who I have a phone-call relationship with, those ATFs I can just call. But if you're not already on a phone call relationship with her, and the conversation is too long to have over text, then just see her in the club and talk about it there.
I'm not sure what type of relationship you have with her. In my dealing with strippers, some I would never ask because they are too lazy, and some I would ask in a heartbeat because they would be more than happy to help.
It's the same with my friends - some you can count on and some you can never count on.
She may not have realized you were coming from the doctor and that this was important to you.
People are self-centered and fixated on their own shit, especially when they are busy. I would give her another chance and explain that you would seriously like her help with this. I think she'll come through for you if you make her realize it's important to you.
If she still blows you off after that, then you are justified in breaking it off with her or whatever.
But I follow the same rule when texting with my kids and strippers -- be very clear in stating exactly what I want or mean. Leave no room for interpretation. In your case, you should have said what would be a good time to talk on the phone for a few min because I need some advice from you. Even better, just wait until you have a date with her.
Heh, I think I've posted this story before. I had slept over my ATF's place, and in the morning I hear her roommate (also a fine-ass stripper) on the phone arguing with her boyfriend. I could hear well enough to know that he was upset about something that she either did or didn't do (I think it was that she didn't do something, she'd forgotten or whatever). When ATF and I come out into the living room, roomie starts venting. "I am not a soccer mom, I'm a stripper! He knows what he gets. If we he wants a soccer mom, he should be dating a soccer mom!". I thought that last sentence was quite pithy, and honest. She's young, smoking hot, fun, and wild, but she fucks up left and right. She's not willing to change or accept responsibility for her fuckups, and doesn't expect to be lectured about them. Accept it or move on. LOL ... quite pithy.
JS69-->"But I follow the same rule when texting with my kids and strippers -- be very clear in stating exactly what I want or mean. Leave no room for interpretation. In your case, you should have said what would be a good time to talk on the phone "
Ya, that's exactly the advice I gave, and it's worth triple repeating. If you texted her you want advice and expected her to call right away, that's almost like you're giving her a test, and it is kind of needy. IF you texted clearly that you wanted to talk on the phone, that's another matter.
If you really wanted some detailed guidance I'd have recommended getting it from her at her fitness job, next OTC, or calling in that order.
Perhaps a better way to approach this would be to wait until the next time you meet in person. Ask her the same question *before* handing over the cash. I wouldn't be surprised if you got a more thorough answer. Most dancers are at their most accommodating when they can see cash, but it isn't in their hands yet.
Also, the advice she gave (though glib) is good advice.
Have you seen her in person since this exchange? If so - did she offer more insight - or follow up with a question "Have you been eating better?"
If you wanted to talk, call her. If she's available and you two talk to each other routinely on the phone, she can talk.
Sometimes my relatives are busy on the phone and don't have long to talk either. Just my opinion but it sounds needy to me to expect her to mind read you and expect an immediate phone call back when you texted her.
Did you just text her the request about diet advice, and expect her to read between the lines and call? If so, her response was a little flip, but not outrageous. You texted her, you didn't tell her you wanted a phone conversation, she texted back.
Did you text her with a clear request to talk on the phone? If so, it sounds like your relationship was such that it's not unreasonable to expect a phone call, or at least a "let's discuss in detail next time I see you" or whatever.
That's true! Our ace-in-the-hole :)
+ 1
And *IMO*; we should not feel entitled to anything more from these chicks than what we are paying them for – they are not our GFs and probably 99% of the time they would not give us the time of day unless we are paying them – that’s just the reality IMO and best not to make it more than what it is or expect more.
Plus; I’m sure the info can be quite detailed and extensive and no way can she answer it in a text message since you texted her first – actually you should be content she even replied at all LOL.
If she’s a student; works a job; and dances part-time; she does not seem to have the time to be there for others/you.
In the end; you are paying her to fuck-you; not care about you – just keeping it 100 :)
Try asking for what you really want, instead of hoping she figures it out. After all, did you beat around the bush when you asked her for sex?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6p_H0vnQ…
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zLo3kbgg…
Damn – that is one perfect way to describe P4P relationships – I’ll have to remember it and hope you don’t mind me PL-plagiarizing you in the future.
Never thought of that, but it would be brilliant! Besides being a great doctor, my physician is a major, though married, hottie.