Knowing how to get the girl
JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
One of the most frustrating things when I started clubbing was getting the girl I wanted on a crowded night. I'd spot the girl of my dreams, follow her around the club with my eyes, and send her telepathic messages telling her to stop and see me. It rarely worked. She'd go on stage, and I'd give her a big stack of ones and tell her how beautiful she was. Then she leave the stage and go sit with some other guy. Meanwhile the ugly dancers keep coming by asking for a dance, and eventually I'd leave before my blue balls exploded out of frustration.
But today, I love knowing how to get that girl to be mine. When it's like tonight when there's only one girl in the club that I want, and I really really want her, I love knowing how to get the girl. When the stage is lined full with guys begging for her attention, including two guys that dumped at least a hundred ones on her, I love knowing how to get the girl. When this girl is borderline DS hot and the little head is literally on his knees begging for a piece, I love knowing how to get the girl.
She does her stage rotation. Towards the end, she works her way down to me. She's collected around a couple hundred in tips by this point. The place is packed, standing room only, and she's on fire. I've been watching her work the room. She is very good at her job. I motion her to lean down to talk. I ask if she knows how to tell which guy is going to spend the most money on her tonight. She seems surprised by the question but says no. I explain that she should never go to the guys who tip with ones. Because they are just trying to make it look like they have a lot of money but in fact they've spent most of what they have on stage tips. Instead I tell her she should always come back to the guy who tips with big bills. That guy knows how to treat a stripper and is not acting like a little boy seeing his first set of boobies. I then slip her two twenties. Then I tell her that my wallet is full of hundreds, and I'd love to shower her with some cash when she gets off stage.
She could easily have gone to any one of a couple dozen guys and started selling dances right away. But she came right over to me. Never gave the other losers a second look. Note that I wasn't committed to anything at this point. I could've gotten one cheap $10 dance and if she was a bitch be done. But this one was awesome. Extraordinarily erotic and hands on dances. She was high and very chill. Beautiful smile, everything was exactly my type. It was great. So we kept escalating the level of the dances, and moving to some place more private each time, until you know yada yada yada. And I handed her a bunch of dead presidents.
How would you have gotten the girl?
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Here's another way to do it:
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Instead, I guess I've taken the "tune in, turn on, drop out" approach. I regularly get the hottest chick in the club, and wrap her up for hours on end, exclusively. But, the way I do it is:
1 -The question of "how to get her attention in a crowded club" never comes up, because I don't go during peak times. I have no interest in competing in a seller's market. I go during dead times, and there, it's easy to get her attention.
2 - 90% of the time, I go to the same clubs, so the girls already know my buddies and I spend. Getting their attention isn't hard, we're often shooing girls away from the table. That's a direct result of #1 above, plus having a rep among the girls for compensating fairly (but never overpaying or competing in a seller's market).
3 - Once I meet her ONCE, I have her number and arrange to see her by appointment. I never have to get her attention again. THEN, I might go during slightly more crowded times.
In short, you're asking how to rip through my commute fastest, through the worst bumper-to-bumper rush hour, and I'm telling you I head home at off-hours, or else just take a country road home instead of the highway, and enjoy the ride even if it's longer.
Sometimes they'll go see a regular first, or a whale like JS who tipped them big, but the majority of the time they come see me. They'll usually come see me right away, but if not, whenever they are free. It's not as effective as JS's method, but it's one I feel comfortable with both personality-wise and financially speaking.
I agree with Subra too that going at off times helps as well.
These girls see $20's all the time. Make their eyes light up with a $100. Of course, the girl in your story was high so $20's worked this time.
Well I began to plan on how to reverse this , or wait it out. But, then I realized the guy, who had brought in bottle and was power drinking with buddies, was NOT buying dances . I kept up eye contact and as soon as her ass left chair I waved her over. (turns out she did remember me,, cause she starts with "yes you may massage my shoulders" my ace in the hole). Had her the rest of the evening for perhaps the best dances ever .. worth a 2 year wait maybe, and I almost blew it.
Next time, moving my seat to stage 3 and picking her off as she comes down! (got her # though so that should help). Besides, she's very interested in seeing my massage table LOL.
With this girl, for example, I spent $350. That includes the $40 stage tip, a drink, and dances for 15+ songs. For that money I got the exclusive attention of the hottest dancer in the place for a little over two hours, all of which she was topless for, at least 45 min of very hands on dances, and a very happy ending that clearly goes beyond what this club usually allows.
I'm not saying that $350 is cheap, but it's not outrageous either. And certainly it's within the limits that a lot of you sometimes spend. So I think it's possible to get dancers by playing the role of an overspending whale without necessarily having to be an overspending whale. Try it some time.
I acknowledge the merits of subra's day shift system. But contrary to popular opinion, I do have a full time job to work at during the day. And while there can be good talent on day shift, the hottest dancers usually work the busier night shifts. I want the hottest white girls, and they are much harder to find on day shift.
Corvus, tipping a Benjamin is rare, usually reserved exclusively for the DS.
SCat, I would follow your system if I could club at Follies regularly. I'd save a fortune if I could club at Follies regularly. But most dancers aren't like Follies girls.
And of course the Borat wedding quilt system is without compare. One day maybe I can achieve such unparalleled levels of PLdom. I'm still a work in progress.
At baby dolls where I think there are 7 stages, I occasionally tip the ones I most want 2 or 3 times including at the final stage. Pathetic I know but it works to make them remember you.
A word about dayshift. There are definitely clubs with dayshifts where the girls are so unattractive, even the hottest girls on that dayshift would be below-average on nightshift, or just plain couldn't even get hired on nightshift. On the other hand, with just a little research, I've never found it hard to find clubs where the top few hottest dayshift girls, are as hot as hot nightshift girls... and since all I need is one, getting her at half price (I usually spend about $300 for 4 hours, versus JS's $350 for 2 hours) is a win for me, since I'm not at all interested in a trip that only lasts 2 hours. I do love how, at nightshift, there are so many hot girls there's this "kid in a candy store" feel, it's awesome. But though there's no "kid in a candy store" feel on dayshift, in the clubs I go to I can often find at least one girl who is as hot as a hot nightshift girl, and once in a long while find one who is top-of-the-foodchain hot regardless of what shift she works.
Chloroform and a handkerchief often works well for me.
I personally prefer the dives where the dancers are hungry for one’s $$$ and IME they are often more willing to please where IME the good-looking chicks in upscale clubs feel more entitled to the $$$ and IME often do less.
The one time I "had to have" a dance from a particular girl who "promised to stop by" after her stage time and didn't, I just walked up to her and told her I would be waiting in the LD area; she was talking to another guy at the time. I'm sure I pissed off the other guy (who may or may not have been after a LD or VIP--I didn't care). The guy and PL were sitting at a table on the floor. I walked up to her from behind, put my hand on her shoulder, leaned down and whispered in her ear exactly what I was waiting for and walked towards the LD area. She caught up to me in about 5 seconds. The dances were most memorable.
Even so, I've always struggled to make a connection with the 9.5+ even in slower times. The ultra fine honeys can make bank even if there are only a few dudes in the club. They'll give good dances but rarely show any interest with getting to know LW in a way that leads to OTC. They're just making too much money in the club to put in the effort. There have been some exceptions but it is very rare.