If a stripper has a significant other that works at the same club?
Mistah_Fetti_Morbuxxx
Georgia
Just sort of piggybacking on a recent discussion post. Would you get dances from a girl that has a significant other working at the same club, on the same shift (bartender, bouncer, manager, valet attendant, etc.) ? There was a dancer that repeatedly asked me for dances and I would turn her down every time because her boyfriend was the DJ at that club. I like high mileage and frisky dances and I didn't want to waste money on her. Even if she told me it was alright with her boyfriend, I still wouldn't do it because it would kill my vibe with her.
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SJG
PHilip Glass Akhenaten
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SJG
I also have fucked a former fav in her bedroom while the boyfriend (who she claims is just her roommate and best friend) was at the other end of the house.
Would I do a 3-way with him & her? In a heartbeat. I'm not so homophobic that I fear having another dick in the room.
I've never knowingly run into a dancer who had a boyfriend/SO/husband working in the same club. Not sure how I would feel about that? It would probably depend on how hot she was.
She gave me reasons to believe her. Fast forward a few months after not seeing her for a while, suddenly she's back and seems as interested as before. She also tells me that one big bouncer is her current bf. I decided to just stick to table dances out in the open with her. One night I agreed to buy her a drink and she ordered something that I thought was quite expensive, maybe 15 to 18 dollars. When she was gone for a few minutes, the bouncer bf came over and thanked me for buying her the drink. I was thinking his reaction might be different if he knew she had said something about giving me a bj if I got real lap dances or that at one time she had suggested the possibility of moving in with me even though we never even went out. That had to be one of the craziest ideas I heard a stripper suggest. move in with a guy she never even visited outside the strip club. I told her I lived an hour away, saved by distance. I once thought no strippers lived near me but I have met a few who did in the last several years. I like to avoid unnecessary drama or avoid getting two ton Godzilla bf's working as a bouncer in the club angry at me. I did understand though to a dancers bf, you are doing him a favor in some respects getting dances from a gf because that's her income for the night.
To continue the story, she eventually broke up with him and left the club, only for another lady to take over the role of owner's girlfriend (and eventually, wife). When this other lady is (relatively) sober, she's lame, but when she's drunk, she has no business being allowed in the club, much less dancing. She's on the short list of worst dancers I ever encountered.
I feel like the majority of clubs do not allow significant others to work or even be present in the club while a dancer is working there just cause a lot could go wrong with jealousy and drama.
What does happen a lot at clubs though is managers and staff hook ups with dancers that usually end up being drama (which is why its not allowed but happens anyway) and dancers quite cause there pissed that so and so fucked so and so too or they slept with everyone and they thought they would be the acceptation to the one night stands.
Over all though if I were a guy I woudn't get a dance with a dancer in a relationship with someone present at the club just cause I wouldn't want to be a part of any of that drama.