Dancer means you should dance
Tired of these minimalist approach to the pole.
Some of th girls pretend it doesn't change a thing to walk on the stage while other improve more and more their skills.
Some of the men don't care, but most of them come to see a show.
Doing this work for four years, I should say I wasn't that good when I began, but I had the will and this is mainly how I get most of my customers. They come back for that.
The stage is your business card. Make it happen to be fun.
Some of th girls pretend it doesn't change a thing to walk on the stage while other improve more and more their skills.
Some of the men don't care, but most of them come to see a show.
Doing this work for four years, I should say I wasn't that good when I began, but I had the will and this is mainly how I get most of my customers. They come back for that.
The stage is your business card. Make it happen to be fun.
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I go to see naked women. Walking around the stage, working the pole, sitting on my lap, whatever. Just be naked.
+ They don't make any or much stage money
+ Pole tricks don't tend to lead to dance sales, nor VIP sales, nor tipping for time.
+ They could get injured.
It think most of it has to do with lack of stage money and increased emphasis on dance sales.
It only seems to take a measly 2 or 3 dollar investment to see if she'll up her game. Unfortunately, it seems that clubs these days only really have 1-2 girls who are good at pole work, if that. And only on night shift. Day shift? Forget about it!
I get your rant though.
^Pretty much this. Attractive women in various stages of undress cures what ails 'ya!
I think you'd have a hard time proving this statement is even in the same universe as the correct.
And I think the OP is actually a dancer, not a customer.
I’ve never gotten a hard-on from seeing pole tricks or great “dancing skillz” – and I go to a strip-club to get a hard-on not see a dive version of “So you think you can dance”.
@rockstar666: CF and I saw a dancer get injured back in November or December. The new, younger dancer was at the top of the pole and lost her grip, slid down, right on her tailbone. She tried to finish her stage set, but couldn't, and was carried back to the DR by a bouncer. CF went back to check her out then came back. You could overhear all of the dancers -- gossiping about it.
CF went to check on her 10-15 minutes later, said the young dancer was still crying in the DR, knee, ankles, and tailbone. Then CF said something insensitive : "That dumb hoe doing all that stupid pole work for what? I made more money sitting here talking to you during this time than she made on her whole stage set. Dumb hoe. It's the truth!"
GMD --> "And I think the OP is actually a dancer, not a customer. "
ah, that makes more sense. I can see the complaint now. And really she has a point, the stage sets and the quality of the dancers HAS been going down, in my personal opinion. It seems the clubs will almost hire anyone how manages to pay the house fee these days.
TI like to shop from the stage, and I do consider at least some stage work to be vital in deciding if I want to spend more time and $$ on a woman for the evening.
These days the dancer emphasis seems to be on groping, molesting, and/or extras or OTC, since that is what is selling.
GMD --> "I prefer that *last* stage of undress, myself."
So do I. But it appears that I can't get that at my location because the religious right nut jobs have death grip either on the state legislature and/or city council. So no nudity for me. :-( so much for a free country.
I may tip an extra dollar for tricks. But I think the guys who care the most are the ones least interested in VIP.
I don't know any guys who like it, or find it a turn-on, when it's clear the girl is barely trying. It's not a good advertisement for her, and it can suck the energy out of the room. I think the girls can set the mood in the place by looking happy and energetic, even to the many guys who don't really care much about the show and are mostly there for socializing, dancing, and splooging. Decent dancing can create a fun vibe in a place.
That said, I don't think all the girls need to be super great dancers, for the many guys who are not there for the show, there's a skill level beyond which we don't care at all. If the dancer has energy (or, if she moves slow, has the sensuality to make up for it), smiles, and has moves that show of her body at its best angles, that's all that's needed, I think. If she moves slow, she MUST know how to be super sensual.
I don't think its ok for a girl to walk around the club or spin/ twirl around the pole looking like they have no idea what they are doing. This personally drives me nuts and usually its a sign that they are new (but not always) so I usually confront them after they get off stage and give them some pointers and demonstrate a few beginner tricks to them that are simplistic enough.
I'll have both lol :)
Some guys don't really want a strip club. They want the brothel of their dreams.
Founder, DB = Dream Brothel
The US has had strip clubs, only because brothels are illegal. But such restrictions are getting harder and harder to enforce, as the girls have turned into brazen sluts.
So in some clubs the girls not only don't dance much on stage, they don't even use the stage at all. They just jump guys as soon as they come in, before their eyes have adjusted to the dark. They go for their cocks or they just start climbing on them. The girls get more money that way, as they cut out the competition.
It is a dangerous world we live in. But so sad that those kinds of clubs are not near me. :(
SJG
xyzoya, you've just registered, are you a female strip club dancer?
Some clubs are show clubs and they do more dancing in those.
Where I live the clubs are no touching, and so they get most of their money on stage.
Once at the San Jose Pink Poodle I talked with the newly hired 18yo waitress and asked her if she was going to dance. She said she was not comfortable enough yet.
I told her that the other girls seemed to be doing fine, "up on stage showing their stuff."
She said, "Yes, that's what it is, showing."
Is this what you mean?
These girls are up there to get tips.
If you are a female dancer, do you do more showing or more dancing?
And if you are a male customer, don't you like it when the girls come over and give you some personal showing?
SJG