Could you date a escort?

I once dated a stripper that has become an escort. Now I cannot bring myself to contact her. We used to do it bare back. I don't think I could trust her now and my old cock just won't accept a condom.

From what I have been told not many escorts have boyfriends for various reasons. One of those reasons is not many guys can put up with their girl being fucked senseless by strangers on a daily basis.

I knew a guy who a few years back lost his job. Things got bad and in desperation convinced his wife into escorting (I saw her on backpage and, well, she told me, you fill in the missing part of the story). Well, all I can say is that it didn't end well for them. Seems to be that he started treating her like a whore instead of his wife, and she started liking the attention other guys (and from what I heard gals) were giving her.

I couldn't do it, no matter how hot she was. The risk of stds, and the need to use condoms to limit that risk, are enough all by themselves to make the relationship impossible.

I'd date an escort only if I got 50 percent of the money she made fucking all those strange guys. I'd show up once a month at her place for just about 2 minutes, grab the envelop with my cut of the money she made during the month, say "thank you and see you next month", and roll out of there quick.

Aka "Ho! Get me my money!"

Hell no – an ex-escort sure – but not one currently “practicing the profession”

London makes a good point.

Before I got heavy into strip clubs I escorted. Doing that you talk and get to know them. I had one escort that had a thing for me, and she would see me off the clock when I was in town. I always suspected she did that because she wanted to feel like she was a girlfriend and spending the night with me and going to dinner or to a club for free gave her that feeling. - eventually some rich old fuck twice her age wifed her up and she retired from the escort business.

Over the years we all have heard about strippers boyfriends, but I have never heard once about a escorts boyfriend. Most of the girls I met escorting were ones that had decent day jobs (paralegal, secretary, real estate agent, even an accountant once) that escorted for extra money. A few others got fucked over hard in a relationship(s) and swore off boyfriends, but they still wanted to have sex... So why not get paid for it? Most of them didn't care what the guys looked like just as long as they were getting fucked. Mind you, none of these girls came from backpage like juices dream girls, these were all mid to upper tier escorts only advertising on private channels. It wasn't too hard to spot someone with a day job working nights as an escort versus a hooker.

If LDK can give a handjob to a tranny, I can definitely date a escort!

Human emotions are interesting. To me this is like the question: could you stiff upper lip it and not cry at your own mother's funeral? It's hard to say, or rather it's easily to say (bravado) you're sure you wouldn't cry since your tough and keep your emotions in check, at least not until you are in that situation. To me dating an escort would probably fall under the same question. Do you know how your emotions would react?

I would think more people would have a problem with it. I probably would too but I wouldn't know until I'm in that situation. It has got to be hard to cope.

No way could I date an escort, even a hot one. I COULD date a handjob-only massage girl, at least casually. Having had light dating and fuckbuddy experiences with strippers and once with a massage girl, I can tell you that based on my sample of exactly one massage girl (but I also got to know several of her friends who were also doing bodyrubs), strippers bring a level of bad judgement, duplicity, manipulation, emotional roller coaster, selective memory, entitlement, and lack of ability to fulfill promises that is unmatched anywhere else in the sex industry. Which definitely fits in with the work environment choices: the massage girl was independent, runs her own business, takes her own appointments and always shows up on time, and works alone and sober. Strippers take little responsibility for their business other than showing up (if they show up at all), many (not all, obviously) are party girls in a party environment, constantly interpret things to make maximum offense, etc. The difference in personality types was exactly the cliched difference you'd expect based on the job descriptions I just gave.

If I had to choose one to date and have any emotional attachment to, I'd pick a HJ-only bodyrub girl over any stripper (even a no-extras stripper) every time. I could not have an attachment with an escort no matter how hot, I don't think.

Fine I didn't want to date any of you anyway!!! :O

I honestly believe I could provided that she took the necessary steps to insure not only her safety but mine as well. She would have to be a new escort; the reason being is because I feel that most escorts would become desensitized the world of sex and that with a special person. This is a hard discussion, I mean looking at the facts it would almost drive anyone insane boyfriend or escort.

"Fine I didn't want to date any of you anyway!!!"

I think that comments wins the internet today

Like Shailynn, I was heavy into escorts before I began reaping the benefits of strippers. In the 1990's and early 2000's I used yellow pages to locate escort services when I travelled. Many were housewives, some students, and few worked full time in the sex industry. I'd guess 1/2 were married. There was one agency in Atlanta that I think was all college students. I remember one lengthy conversation with a very attractive engineering major from Georgia Tech ( an oxymoron?) who said that she only did one customer a night, 3 nights a week. She had a boyfriend who didn't know of her "secret life" and thought she got a check from Daddy every week. My ATF has occasionally fucked other customers at the club, given blow jobs more often, and never hid it from me. For a two year period she had 3 of us meeting her weekly OTC and one of them I've actually met several times and we both are aware of each others' "relationship" with her. So as a mistress, it's doable in my mind, but as a GF or spouse? It'd tear me apart.

Hmmmmmm. I guess it depends on what the definition of dating is. If fucking her regularly for free constitutes dating, why not? But no, I wouldn't get all emotional about it.

^^^^ what you just described is a fuck buddy.

Now, hypothetically let's say I find myself single again one day meet a beautiful woman. After a relationship blossoms she tells me she used to be an escort but no longer is. Tough pill to swallow but I could do it. I guess I'd have to tell her my past too.

I would not consider a real relationship with one. Fuck buddy would be an option

@Shailynn. True. But I also wouldn't be averse to taking her out to dinner or a show before taking her home. That goes beyond my definition of a FB.

I would have a hard time getting emotionally attached though. It would always be in the back of my mind.

I've dated a hooker? they essentially do the same thing. Except one's cheaper than the other. Eh, its nothing more than an open ended relationship. except she charges everyone that isn't you money. That way she can't say she ain't got no money in the bank and your wallet stays fat. Its good if your not looking to get married in the near future.

the thing with me was, I ALWAYS use a condom (ony the married woman gets no condom...or the bride to be/fiance), so I don't risk STD, she's not charging me to fuck so I know she's definetely not in this relationship for the money, equaling she likes me emotionally and physically. Lastly, she's always willing to fuck if she's not downright tired because half the johns were garbage in bed. Only had two people that were "better" than me and it was only because they had bigger dick than I did. but their stroke game was boring and they were ugly...and amounted to two people. Its all about having tough skin at the end of the day.

Interesting Esta, thanks for the insight.

I'd do it like a shot!..