What pct of the time do you not get any dances?
sflguy123
Florida
I was at a small club today, which is very hit and miss, and got zero dances. Three girls asked but none were my type. I was there approx 1 hr 15 min hoping a girl would show up who I knew or was my type(girls come and go randomly at this place).
Ironically on this day when I walked in a regular of mine was at the bar but she was just stopping by not working, wants me back on Friday.
So I'd say approx 20-25% of the time I get no dances.
Ironically on this day when I walked in a regular of mine was at the bar but she was just stopping by not working, wants me back on Friday.
So I'd say approx 20-25% of the time I get no dances.
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I used to always get dances. Well, maybe 90% of the time I'd find a girl I was interested in.
Lately though, I've been much more discerning.
I'll stay through the rotation of girls on shift. But more and more, it seems like I'm not finding the ones who I'd spend money on anymore.
A lot of that is just coming with experience as I'm more cautious and picky than I was when I first started out clubbing.
Now a days, it takes more and more to get me to do VIP with a dancer. So I find myself many times now just getting a few beers and watching the show.
SJG
Stevie Wonder ★ Don't You Worry 'Bout A Thing
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y74Fhyk0…
different with the extras no-alcohol clubs. There, high touch or extras dances are often the only draw, there's not going to be extended conversation or other fun, so I'm far more picky on who I'll hang out iwth and spend money on
different with the extras no-alcohol clubs. There, high touch or extras dances are often the only draw, there's not going to be extended conversation or other fun, so I'm far more picky on who I'll hang out iwth and spend money on
So I have also paid girls the full $20 dance fee just to sit and talk with me, in the front room.
Oh well!
At least sometimes we have had these underground Mexican bar shows. Maybe now after the San Jose bust, people will finally believe me.
Now at those shows the girls just come around and dance. They don't ask permission, they just do it. Then they let you know they want money, $1.
So there I always let each of the girls have some time dancing for me. The whole thing is lots of fun.
Also, dancers experienced in all sorts of venues insist that they make more money at those places than at the "wanna dance" $20 a song places. At the latter, they spend their time talking and fraternizing. But at these $1 at a time places, there is zero down time. They just go from one guy to the next, and they never ask permission.
If you want to say something into the girl's ear, you usually can. But she will still be metering in money.
I loved it!
And then of course at these underground venues, most of the girls were trying to set up OTC's.
SJG
more Stevie Wonder
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xdF3fskl…
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SJG
SJG
You gotta keep up with our urban SC slang!
It's rare I can't find one dancer to get dances with but I've had it happen three times this year.
However, my last visit, I had trouble spotting anyone I was excited to get a dance from, even though there were lots of dancers working. I was about to walk out without a dance and then I spotted one of my favorite dancers, just in time. She's so hot. Made my day.
http://youtu.be/vAkXPpBnSkM
Thank you. But I kind of suspect that you are being sarcastic, maybe? Someone who is in love with a stripper so he comes to her club. Isn't that guy also a looser? Otherwise he would just see her outside. So maybe the slacker, stoner, loser definition is derived from Regular In Love?
SJG
Nirvana
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pkcJEvMc…