They can expect you to conform to all sorts of societal standards. They can be just plain spoiled and bratty. In their very nature they are conformist, and so they make our entire society also be so.
Christine Thuy Huong
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The best of the San Jose Coffee Girls are just like this one. But she and they also remind me of the sorority girls when I was in college, just like the ones UCSB's Elliot Rodger found so frustrating.
My own experience is that you can't fight them directly. But you also must not ever submit to them. If you do submit in order to placate them, then it will never stop and they will destroy you and never respect you.
They live to enforce societal norms. And if you are already delegitimated, then they will chew you up and spit you out. The best way to deal with them is to have comrades, so you are not alone. Either they treat you and your group with respect, or they are replaced.
You can't fight them directly, but fight them you must!
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