Code of ethics among TUSCLers
Bavarian
Would you reveal your CF, ATF, DS' stage name to your fellow TUSCLers?
What are your reasons for not doing so?
Mine are:
* I don't want a TUSCLer to corrupt my CF or push her boundaries. TUSCLers are not looking for a plain ol' lapdance, lol.
* I don't want another TUSCLer talking to my CF about me and all the shit I have posted here. I think this applies mainly to me and JS69. The dancer could easily figure out who you are talking about.
Would you talk shit about a fellow TUSCler to his CF, ATF, DS or try to get extras from her?
What are your reasons for not doing so?
Mine are:
* I don't want a TUSCLer to corrupt my CF or push her boundaries. TUSCLers are not looking for a plain ol' lapdance, lol.
* I don't want another TUSCLer talking to my CF about me and all the shit I have posted here. I think this applies mainly to me and JS69. The dancer could easily figure out who you are talking about.
Would you talk shit about a fellow TUSCler to his CF, ATF, DS or try to get extras from her?
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Seriously, I only rag on you cause it's fun. Your rules sound fine to me. BTW what's your debit card and pin number. Thanks.
I have introduced one of you to video girl, and the same guy met free girl the same night I met her.
But I draw the line at DS I and II. I have shared too much about them to ever allow anybody on here, even people I trust, to know who they are.
But you never know with TUSCLers that practice "The System". She might fall prey to it.
Thou shalt not cock block!
Now about another tuscl member talking about you, I don't know if many would do that unless you have said to mention your name. I've had dances with girls who are faves of other tuscl members and not said a thing. They would never know I knew them. Quite frankly, if a dancer knew we were talking about them might freak them out and we both lose out on fun.
1. Usually when a stripper says she's only fucking you, she's probably the biggest slut in the club.
2. Why are you guys worrying about other TUSCLrs who live all over the country banging your girl when other club goers are probably doing it 4 nights a week?
3. Going into a club and saying you know Juice or LDK would be the ultimate VIP access. The key to unlock all doors so to speak.
I never assume I"m getting anything exclusive. But, do you guys all believe that strippers don't treat different customers differently? That anything she's doing for you, as a regular who treats her well, she's necessarily doing with EVERYONE? That's outright wrong, IMO -- YMMV is the rule, not the exception. Not that I think I'm "speshul" and the only one getting X or Y or Z, but I may well be one of a handful of guys getting X or Y or Z or seeing her OTC or whatever. I have enough SC buddies, and pretty big extended backchannel through the old redbook connections, to be able to compare and contrast; there are girls doing things for some guys that they don't do for others.
"2. Why are you guys worrying about other TUSCLrs who live all over the country banging your girl when other club goers are probably doing it 4 nights a week?"
The last thing I'd be worried about is other TUSCLrs who live all over the country. But I describe something that's identifiable to me, and it gets back to her -- and yes, lurkers do report to the girls things that are said, as chickenshit as that is -- it may well mean whatever YMMV I"m getting could disappear. Maybe more importantly, the last thing most strippers want is for her name and activities to be posted on a public board, and it doesn't matter to me why she feels that way, I feel like I owe her some discretion. That said, if someone I trust from TUSCL PMed me and said, "headed to SF, who should I see?", in that case I'd give recommendations if I had any.
I just said no last night to all the dancers who asked if I wanted a dance without sitting or talking to me first. Of course when the only seats left are in the dance room, that may be hard to do without agreeing to get a dance.
I just make sure I don't say anything that could get a dancer in trouble with LE, club management or other dancers. If we want people (in general) to be motivated to do a good job for customers like us, we have to give them good word of mouth, anything else is anti-social.
I have shared a lot of intel in the past, and in the case of one member I've come to regret it. Not for any of the reasons that the OP worries about. This joker repeatedly betrayed my trust and spread shit on this board about some of my faves. Hope he enjoys his sausage parties, lol.
There are a few here with whom if share certain other names and locations, and while I'm mostly OK with meeting out of town, I consider it unlikely that I'd meet up with any but a couple of you locally.
For me, it's simply maintaining my anonymity, and avoiding having my on line personality associated with the real me that walks in the door.
Going into a club and saying you know Juice or LDK would be the ultimate VIP access. The key to unlock all doors so to speak.
There is no honor among thieves......or perverts.
I have shared dancer's names and their mileage levels thru PM's with trusted TUSCLers. Isn't that one of the reasons that we're here?
Case by case for sure. I never talk to dancers about TUSCL but I trade PM info with a handful of others from this board that I feel I can identify with based on their posts, or long history on this site. So far, no problems with the wrong info getting shared with the wrong person!
I agree
Then if you said my real name they would say that dude is sweet but is cheap as fuck
Lol then they would avoid you thanking since you was associated with me all you would do is try to bargain for cheap lapdances and extras that they want do lol
You would be in the corner like i do making plans to visit follies lol
A wise man understands their is always some one in the world that can one up you
That's not the point. The point is to focus on yourself and that only. So fuck and game to your best ability and be satisfsediin that
Thou shalt not cock block!
Agreed