When did you start paying for sex?

1981

I started paying for sex when I was 16. And ever since.

If you look at it from a man's perspective, we have to take a girl out (have a car, gas, insurance, dinner, movie, hotel, etc, etc...) and if we are stupid enough to get married, we end up having to pay for sex with a house payment; vacations, groceries, furniture, etc, etc, etc...

So I've been paying for sex since the first time I've ever had it.
Spent so much time getting out of that vagina when born and now all I want to do is get back into it that I pay money for it... Damn.

Oh yeah... We need to see your tits. lol.

Yes! Show us your tits and start a "Go Fund Me" account for us to contribute.

men always pay for sex in one way or another... the professionals on here who have embraced the pay per pop approach are just ahead of the curve. it's far more economical than half of everything in the divorce.

Hahaha @meat72.

So let me ask you- have the wives and ex-wives just lost their sex drives as they aged? Did you never have that great of sex with these women to begin with?

I mean Jesus...sex is a huge part of my life and has been since high school. I hate to imagine that going away with age. You are all lucky that you're men. There will always be hot and willing girls.

I look at it from a different perspective ......you are lucky you are a woman you can get sex anytime you want it.
I have been having sex with multiple partners since I was 16. I don't look at it as pay for play now because I have 2 steady girlfriends and several fuck buddys. I take care of them and they take care of me but I can get it when I want it and never have to negotiate. They are always available when I need them. I just text them and the make time for me. I have been texting with 4 different girls tonight setting up dates for next week.

“... I was ignorant to the SC world until not long ago ...”

That is often the case for probably 99% of the people (dancers; custies) that become SCers.

I've never been a regular pay-for-sex guy (not b/c “I'm above it”) & I've def done in the past – I probably first did when I was 19 and have done it periodically ever since.

“... What makes a stripper who does extras different or more appealing in your pov than an escort/hooker ...”

+ you can interact w/ a stripper in the club and get to know her and be w/ her vs not knowing anything about an escort (or how she really looks) if you've never met her b/f

+ the overall club experience/ambiance – many a club is designed to enhance the senses with the pumping music and lights – plus seeing dozens of nude/semi-nude women walking around is def an aphrodisiac – vs an escort is more of a “wham bam thank you PL”

I started paying strippers for sex after years of frustration with a wife who lost interest in sex a long time ago. Now that I'm separated from the frigid one, I pay more strippers for sex than I used to. I do this because I don't want a girlfriend outside of the bedroom, and this is an easy way to get what I need and avoid the tremendous costs in terms of time, emotions etc that is involved a romantic relationship. And while I spend a lot on strippers, it is and always will be far cheaper than what my wife cost me.

Strippers are better than escorts because most fuck far fewer guys for money, and you can see and get to know a stripper beforehand. I'm not a slut who fucks any decent woman who makes herself available. Just kidding, I am a slut but still there is a particular type of woman that I prefer and strip clubs are the best, easiest, and in the long run the cheapest way to find such a woman.

Finally "dating" strippers is much more fun than other types of paid sexual relationships because they are much more likely to go to dinner, shows, etc before the sex. This is a type of foreplay for me. Escorts have more of a time is money philosophy and either won't do this or they charge extra for it.

If you mean when did I start paying professionals for sex then it would have to be 1964 when I was stationed in Japan for two years.

"So let me ask you- have the wives and ex-wives just lost their sex drives as they aged? Did you never have that great of sex with these women to begin with? "

While I think the classic "not getting it for free, so paying for it" reason is common, I've gone to strip clubs even when I'm having great sex in my personal life... the motivation is partly for strange -- you absolutely should never undervalue how much that can drive men -- and partly because I just plain love strip clubs and strippers.

1972 - San Fran in the summer. I was walking back to my ship as the sun set. A beautiful dirty blonde in a simple black party dress began walking beside me. We talked about several meaningless things for a couple of blocks. As we reached the entrance to a nice hotel, she "explained" that she was broke and needed a place to stay. She offered to make it a night to remember if I would get a room and share it with her. It took every dollar I had left, but she was right - 43 years later I do remember!

is getting a BJ considered sex? Because I never got sex vaginally (or anally, but that'll never happen even for free) from a stripper, and I don't think strippers want a young 24 anyway so I think I may be that weird strip cluber going for the "garden variety"

@warhawk we HAVE to? Since when. I don't pay for shit women want. I give them a great laugh, good company and good dick. Cash never spent on them. At least not my hard earned cash.

It's only been about 5 years for me. Although I've been going to strip clubs for 16 years now or so. 5 years ago I had a stripper that I had exchanged phone numbers with text me offering sex. She was a perfect 10 and I couldn't believe at the time that she was willing to have sex outside the club.

That started me on the road to fucking strippers and looking for them offering extras in the clubs.

Like others have said.....since the very first time. Men pay for dinner, drinks, flowers, candy, gifts, jewelry, cards, transportation, gas, etc....just to get laid. The list goes on and on.

It was in AMP's. Never much interest in hand jobs. But once I found out that if you treat the girl right, and if you want to, you can make FS happen with her, then I was doing AMP girls in three different counties. Then after I got married I quickly saw that paying for it is really the only safe way to have outside sex.

SJG

I have never paid for sex. Occasionally I have had sex and paid her to leave me alone immediately after, tho.

You guys make me feel young. I had plenty of free hookups in college and a bit after. I'm talking like maybe buy her one $5 drink for FS, GFE (covered), BBBJ, CIM. My crazy ex gf paid for our dates because her daddy was rich and gave her a credit card. So I guess he was the one paying for it?

I started regularly going to strip clubs my 6th year in my relationship, third year in our marriage. The first year of dating sex was awesome and we did it 5 or more times a week. By year 2 or 3 it was down to 4 or 5 times a month.

People naturally lose interest in each other sexually, and my wife has never been one to take one for the team and just let me have way with her if she's not in the mood. When she wants it it's good. But that's 2 or 3 times a month.

Lap dances fill the gap and provide variety. I haven't paid for full sex, but I've paid and had women get me off.

I don't pay for sex. I system the hell out of strippers and then they become sluts for BSLC.

A few times my buddy rickdugan and I have paid. The orangutan strippers we fucked in Sumatra weren't worth running the system on. Plus I had a lot of cash from going all wildebeest on the ass of some wealth Indonesian businessman. Good times. Nothing like fucking an orangutan stripper.

Well, you can't count college. College was an easy $2 beer at a bar or even free just hanging out and then more

April 1, 1988 -- yeah, no fooling -- at an "adult health spa" in the Twin Cities. It was something like 3 or 4 in the morning. I was tired. I was hungry. I was curious. And it was my first time -- ever. I had been friend-zoned so long, constantly turned down for any and everything, I wondered if I ever would have sex. So I wound up paying a pretty little redhead to cure me of my virginity.

My bank account's never recovered since then.

This is a interesting topic, 2004 was when i started. Wasnt planned, just happened one night at a SC. Did a lappy with a beautiful mixed girl, she was 20 at the time. She offered a "want to fuck" VIP for $700? I laughed and said for that price HELL NO! she was obviously trying to hustle me. She then said what about $200 total? I pondered for a few minutes and off we went.

That was the first time i realized that club got down like that. Started occasionally going more often to sober up when nothing else would happen. VIP'd a few more dancers at the club, had a few atf's that got rotated around. Dayshift fav, nightshift fav, backup if no fav was working.

Was always against SC's prior due to the blue balls i usually got after a few traditional lappys. And ever since its been on and off. Have taken a few SC hiatus' in between CF's.

As previously stated you pay in some shape or form with any female. I enjoy not having to maintain a relationship with dancers unlike civvies. With civvies you gotta ask how are they via text or calls now and again. With a dancer you only do that in person. Unless of course relationship goes OTC.

But like pensionking stated above, "I have never paid for sex. Occasionally I have had sex and paid her to leave me alone immediately after, tho"