The “It’s a fantasy” lecture

Lone_Wolf
Arizona
The “It’s a fantasy” lecture

d I start chatting which leads to taking a few shots and a lot of laughter. Pretty soon Kitty and I are planning several OTC excursions all related to one another.

Right in the middle of discussing how good the Patron margaritas are going to taste at our targeted Mexican restaurant, Kitty stops talking and a look of bewilderment crosses her face.

I can tell shAt my favorite sc. Dancer (let’s call her Kitty) slides into the barstool next to me. Kitty is young, fine and fun but I don’t give her much time because, in the past, she has given hard indications that she won’t do OTC in any capacity. No other honey’s of interest are around so I decide to run my OTC “system” on Kitty just for fun.

Kitty ane is wondering how a simple “wanna dance” hustle has turned into spending a day with this fat fugly PL sitting next to her. Given her strict policy of no OTC with anybody how did it get this far?

Kitty sighs, takes a sexy breath, then launches into an unsolicited, sweet, but long winded explanation about how a sc is really just a fantasy for old fat fucks like me to come in and enjoy the company of beautiful young women that otherwise would not talk to me. Kitty explained that it’s not real and the dancers are all putting on a fake personas for my pleasure. Of course Kitty was a heck of a lot more tactful than that, but that was pretty much the jist of it.

As Kitty is lecturing, I’m thinking about the stunning young exotic beauty I had lunch OTC with that same day. I’m also thinking about the three other honey’s (met in a sc) that I spend time with OTC partying and fucking. All p4p of course.

After Kitty is done with the rather long diatribe about a sc being a fantasy I repeat back what she told me.

Me: So you’re saying everything that happens in a sc is just a fantasy that never leaves the sc?

Kitty: Exactly, it is all an illusion, a fantasy for entertainment.

Me: Got it thanks

Kitty and I never did make an OTC date. This is okay, as I have pretty solid list of OTC honey’s that are consuming all my time and money. Kitty would be an interesting OTC challenge but I’m not in the mood for project right now.

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mikeya02
9 years ago
A dancer told me that once...

I said gee, your tits, ass and vagina sure seem real to me
Lone_Wolf
9 years ago
Second try -

At my favorite sc. Dancer (let’s call her Kitty) slides into the barstool next to me. Kitty is young, fine and fun but I don’t give her much time because, in the past, she has given hard indications that she won’t do OTC in any capacity.

No other honey’s of interest are around so I decide to run my OTC “system” on Kitty just for fun.

Kitty and I start chatting which leads to taking a few shots and a lot of laughter. Pretty soon Kitty and I are planning several OTC excursions all related to one another.

Right in the middle of discussing how good the Patron margaritas are going to taste at our targeted Mexican restaurant, Kitty stops talking and a look of bewilderment crosses her face.

I can tell Kitty is wondering how a simple “wanna dance” hustle has turned into spending a day with this fat fugly PL sitting next to her. Given her strict policy of no OTC with anybody how did it get this far?

Kitty sighs, takes a sexy breath, then launches into an unsolicited, sweet, but long winded explanation about how a sc is really just a fantasy for old fat fucks like me to come in and enjoy the company of beautiful young women that otherwise would not talk to me. Kitty explained that it’s not real and the dancers are all putting on a fake personas for my pleasure. Of course Kitty was a heck of a lot more tactful than that, but that was pretty much the jist of it.

As Kitty is lecturing, I’m thinking about the stunning young exotic beauty I had lunch OTC with that same day. I’m also thinking about the three other honey’s (met in a sc) that I spend time with OTC partying and fucking. All p4p of course.

After Kitty is done with the rather long diatribe about a sc being a fantasy I repeat back what she told me.

Me: So you’re saying everything that happens in a sc is just a fantasy that never leaves the sc?

Kitty: Exactly, it is all an illusion, a fantasy for entertainment.

Me: Got it thanks

Kitty and I never did make an OTC date. This is okay, as I have pretty solid list of OTC honey’s that are consuming all my time and money. Kitty would be an interesting OTC challenge but I’m not in the mood for project right now.
Meursault
9 years ago
She's right in some respects. She is selling a fantasy. However, there are other girls there who are selling OTC excursions. I know which one I'd buy.
bvino
9 years ago
I have never let a stripper "explain" anything to me. I can barely listen to most of them on any topic much less a lecture on "my mistakes. Obviously you moved on , as you should, but why sit there for that drivel?
JohnSmith69
9 years ago
I know it's all a fantasy. I just want to move the fantasy from the club to my bed.
georgmicrodong
9 years ago
"How does having my dick sucked by a pretty girl half, or less, my age constitute a fantasy?"

The fantasy is *hers*.
JamesSD
9 years ago
P4p is a fantasy. So is porn. Doesn't mean they aren't fun.
hiroaki
9 years ago
And you didn't just laugh at her? Interesting.
Dougster
9 years ago
Life is just a fantasy. Can you live this fantasy life?
Lone_Wolf
9 years ago
Laugh? In my mind I was laughing my ass off. Outwardly I was listening intently like she was Opra or something. I said she was fine didn't I . lol
deogol
9 years ago
Dougster and I showing our age https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPQgfaB3…
steve3000
9 years ago
Wait a minute... Is Dougster really Steve229?

Showing my age also. Haven't heard that song for years.
crazyjoe
9 years ago
If she says it is a fantacy then if she meets you otc she can pretend it is only fantacy
rockstar666
9 years ago
I get the fantasy angle; them pretending I'm god's gift to manhood. However, I sure all of us considers our favorites as a little more than just pretend. They know a little about us and us about them. Even if we're not dating or doing OTC with them, I like to think they're friends in some way. Granted without the money they wouldn't have ever met us, but all of my regulars will hang with me ITC even after I've bought my dances, so I can't be THAT bad as far as customers go in their eyes.
chandler
9 years ago
Dumb lecture. When a stripper interrupts things to tell me it's just a fantasy (duh), it kind of kills the fantasy for me. It's like when I see a play I don't want the actors to stop and tell the audience that they're all just playing a role.
Papi_Chulo
9 years ago
I read the “fantasy line” on SW all the time – I think it's part a defense mechanism so they won't feel like whores (“I'm not really a whore; I'm just selling a fantasy”) - it comes across as them using it to cope w/ what they are doing.

No doubt IMO most men and women see sex differently – I don't care what the dancers see it as as long as they don't use it as an excuse – i.e. many use it as an excuse not to give high-mileage – i.e. in the minds of the dumb strippers they think a custy should just be satisfied w/ the illusion (fantasy) of touching a dancer but not actually touching her.
Papi_Chulo
9 years ago
Next time a stripper tells you it's supposed to just be a fantasy – don't pay her after her dances and tell her to “fantasize” that she got paid a lot – let's see how well that “fantasy” works for her.
rockstar666
9 years ago
I think Papi nailed it. She wasn't lecturing Lone Wolf, she was lecturing herself.
Dancer_
9 years ago
^ And get bouncer whoop your ass:)

Anyhow, I do think that some custies look for fantasy, not all, of course, but still. There are lots of lonely guys craving for affection/conversation/cuddling/attention by pretty girl. Now I am analyzing my regulars and even though some guys visit/used to visit me just to get lap-dances and grab tits, there is always someone coming in to pay me for conversation or taking me to the room to pretend to be my SO(and no, that's not what you just thought, lol). One of my regulars buys 2-4 hours of VIP, where I dance for him a little bit, then we cuddle, talk about his kids,work,traveling, then he will ask me which American cities I
would like to visit and will start hinting on us going there together and what a nice couple we could be and how I am so nice and cuddly and this and that bla bla bla. If it's not selling fantasy, then I don't know what it is.

Also when I just started dancing, I was mechanical and kinda cold. Thankfully, later I learned to be more sensual and sexier. That helped me to make guys buy more dances. Partly, it's also selling fantasy, no?
rockstar666
9 years ago
Dancer95, you sound like all my regulars because they also know exactly what's going on and learn how to exploit it. And in a good way I mean, because the PL's are paying for something they want, and your job is to supply it (not talking extras here) The trick is to find out what they want, as you said: companionship, titillation, etc.

As a P/L, I get something different that my regulars supply. I'm looking to my ATF as my "pretend g/f" as we've had dates but we're not dating and she's not in to me romantically at all. My #2 is all about sex; her grind is the best I've ever had and she gets the job done. And my new C/F is about sex and music since she's in the biz too. No one girl could give me all 3....and if I found such a girl I'd be a rather pathetic P/L for making the unforgivable mistake of falling in love.
ButterMan
9 years ago
All the 'good girl" dancers think it is only a fantasy, little do they know that 2 of their co-workers were naked on my couch this week.
bkkruined
9 years ago
Of course it's a fantasy.
I know they're faking the orgasm when I'm fucking them.
I don't fake mine, and that's what counts for me!!!
TheFword
9 years ago
Yes bitch, I'm paying for a fantasy. If you fuck up my fantasy I'm not paying.
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