I think this is it for me.
Bavarian
My regular dancer has kicked me to the curb for the third time.
This time, it all boils down to me not spending any money on her on Monday. In her mind, I was going to get VIP. She had been asking for it over the weekend. Unlucky for her, I saw her being dropped off by a guy. This triggered a thought in my mind. I am dropping $1,000 on her and this guy gets to benefit from it. Not to mention he gets to fuck her when I don't even get to see her pussy. I asked her about it and she said it was a friend and that she did not have a boyfriend. I did not believe it and went home without spending a dime on her.
I understand that the strip club is a fantasy. I think I overreacted, but I just felt like the fantasy was shattered after seeing her being dropped off by a guy. At that point it became real that I am just an ATM.
I planned on temporarily taking some weeks off from the strip club to get over it but she took the initiative of texting me and telling me to find another girl.
I tried to reason with her but she said she would only take me back if I spent more money on her. I had been spending between $200 and $400 per visit. Like I dumbass, I agreed thinking that it meant $300.
The following day she texts me and asks if I'm going to see her. I asked if she was still mad at me. She says "not if you get VIP" That sounded very manipulative. I said I can't do VIP. She then asked me to spend at least $500 on her. I said I would spend $300. She replied that I had to spend more than that, otherwise I could go find another girl.
I don't know if she's doing this as a tactic to get more cash out of me or if she is genuinely tired of me and is willing to forego the income.
At this point I am done with strippers and strip clubs.
This time, it all boils down to me not spending any money on her on Monday. In her mind, I was going to get VIP. She had been asking for it over the weekend. Unlucky for her, I saw her being dropped off by a guy. This triggered a thought in my mind. I am dropping $1,000 on her and this guy gets to benefit from it. Not to mention he gets to fuck her when I don't even get to see her pussy. I asked her about it and she said it was a friend and that she did not have a boyfriend. I did not believe it and went home without spending a dime on her.
I understand that the strip club is a fantasy. I think I overreacted, but I just felt like the fantasy was shattered after seeing her being dropped off by a guy. At that point it became real that I am just an ATM.
I planned on temporarily taking some weeks off from the strip club to get over it but she took the initiative of texting me and telling me to find another girl.
I tried to reason with her but she said she would only take me back if I spent more money on her. I had been spending between $200 and $400 per visit. Like I dumbass, I agreed thinking that it meant $300.
The following day she texts me and asks if I'm going to see her. I asked if she was still mad at me. She says "not if you get VIP" That sounded very manipulative. I said I can't do VIP. She then asked me to spend at least $500 on her. I said I would spend $300. She replied that I had to spend more than that, otherwise I could go find another girl.
I don't know if she's doing this as a tactic to get more cash out of me or if she is genuinely tired of me and is willing to forego the income.
At this point I am done with strippers and strip clubs.
31 comments
Imo you got played and you are reacting like she had feelings for you. She had feelings for your cash and what do you think she was doing on those other days when you weren't there? Playing other PL's for their cash just like she played you.
Get over it and move on. It's your money, get what you want for it or tell HER to find a new money source.
If he is really this pathetic then he's a fckn creeper soon to be stalker fckn serial killer. Do yourself a favor, spend that $1000 on a super high end hooker. At least you'd have a nut and some dignity. Damn!!!!
I don't know what all this creeper, stalker, serial killer shit has to do with me. Yes, I'm pathetic for spending so much money on a manipulating bitch, but that's what strippers do.
"Someone like you makes it hard to live without......somebody else".
The greatest day of your entire SC life is coming soon. It is the day you say to her, "you look beautiful today. I'm hanging out with Porsche today. Nice to see you again."
That's for the next visit and he has to be hanging with another stripper for it to have the desired effect.
Of course never mind that we're talking about another human being who is going through their own shit has their own struggle and the last person on their list of priorities is probably you.
You are a creeper. I've already told you to go get help from a certified therapist, that wasn't a suggestion, you are going to hurt yourself and others some day ( most serial killers start their behavior around 40 -- tick toc that's like in five/four years nigga wake the fuck up!!!!)
I am going to Houston for the weekend. Might as well visit a strip club if the opportunity arises. Anything comparable to Baby Dolls Dallas? I am looking for beautiful latinas.
Your remaining delusion is the hope that somebody can tell you some trick that will make a stripper appreciate and like you. There's no trick. They can offer you sexual contact of some sort for money, that's it. It's not impossible that you will meet a dancer and form a worthwhile non-commercial bond with her. But it's extremely unlikely. It is what it is. If you go to some poor country and marry a very poor chick, she may adore you forever as her savior. But I'd say even that is a 50-50 shot at best. And if you crap out you'll win the Superbowl drive off in a Hyundai.
good taste!!!
You wasted too much time and money on her long long ago. Ignore her and see how long it takes for her to try to get more money from you for almost nothing. Then keep on ignoring her. She might ignore you for a whole week or two if you creeped her out like a stalker. Nevermind. Ignore her.
You're not gonna get anything from her no matter what now; she considers you an ATM, and by this time, that attitude is likely too entrenched to change. Just move on and do better with the next one.
Of course strippers have BFs; and of course they'll tell you they don't have one – there is nothing you can do about that; just expect/accept that is the deal – she goes to strip-clubs to work and make $$$; it does not mean she does not have a life outside the strip club and her PL custies.
Dancers having BFs and manipulating custies is as common as rain in Seattle – you need to learn how to play the game so you won't keeping getting played.
The only thing a dancer owes a custy is to show him a good time and treat him well for the $$$ he is spending; i.e. reasonable service for a reasonable payment – that's it she is not your GF; does not want to be your GF; and you probably would not want her to be your GF – she is a provider and you are a paying custy – no mas.