Best part of Manhattan strip clubs: The doorman

Why is it no matter where in manhattan you go to for strip clubs (this doesn't include harlem btw) your best experience is with the doorman. I went to Cheetahs over in midtown and GOD DAMN, me and the door man had such a wonderful conversation. From weight lifting to cars to talk about life in general, I honestly didn't want to go in and just hang with the big burly doorman. I don't know why so many people on here make a fuss about the door men but they are a real delight. Plus nearly all of them don't really partake in divulging their money in strip clubs so maybe they have a different outlook on reality besides breasts and ass. Because man once I went back inside, the strippers were robotic and airy as shit. I been creeping along this website and discovered that you can get what you guys call extras, but the women are so evasive I don't see where some of you get it. I wound up for an hour chit-chatting with the door man and then 30 minutes or so in the manhattan strip before I'm gone. Am I missing something here?