Book Review

8/11/2015 7:36:50 AM

I'm in the process of reading, "What do Women Want?: Adventures in the Science of Female Desire" by Daniel Bergner, which explores curent knowledge, research, and history comparing men's libido and women's desire for sex. Interestingly, women who are studying the physiology and psychology of female sex are finding that there may actually be a significantly stronger desire on the part of women for more varied types, frequency, and different partners than men. This isn't another, "There are no frigid women; only clumsy men" book. In fact the author states that current research could lead us to the end of monogamy as we know it. Society has repressed women's desire and many of today's young women are putting an end to that.
I've discussed this with two strippers who I know very well and both could easily be called promiscuous, but their take is that they'll fuck whoever they want if there's something in it for them - pleasure, money, status, whatever. They both have a strong appetite for sex, admit it, feel no shame at being "sluts" and are satisfied with themselves. They both achieve orgasm easily (in my estimation) and expect it.
A thread earlier today asked if the availability of extras had increased in the past 15 or 20 years and all kinds of explanations were theorized from the impact of porn to the poor economy. While these may be factors, yet another might be that women are finally able to act on their desires.

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sclvr5005

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9 years ago

About time, I say.

chessmaster

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9 years ago

Could be. Maybe they have always been sluts and it's now more acceptable than ever.

shailynn

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9 years ago

Great post.

I see some occurrences out in the world to back up what the book is saying especially with younger woman (under 25 - and not strippers).

The one thing I see different is the soccermom set (age 30-45) which latches onto a successful man and holds on with a deathgrip because they (the soccermoms) are getting the lifestyle they desire and get to sit at home all day and drink wine, while the kids are at school and the hubby is working 60 hour work weeks.

Yes, some do cheat because they're bored (but not bored enough to get a job), sexually unsatisfied or void of excitement and need someone (or someone's cock) to fill in what's missing. I think most women in that situation just stick to their vibrators and reality shows as they don't want to get caught and screw up their free ride. A select few don't care because they are confident that if they get caught, they'll find a replacement man.

If any of you know of any hot milfs that need excitement - please send them my username. You can send their daughters (18 and over) to JS69s inbox

tumblingdice

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9 years ago

But for every action there is a equal and opposite reaction.

lopaw

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9 years ago

I have seen a sexual openness in women both in the SC and in the real world and its awesome. I have always pretty much said 'fuck you' to societal sexual repression and the double standard put on women and always have sought my own sexual satisfaction, first with men and now exclusively with other women. I'm glad to see my sisters are finally catching up and doing the same :-D

shailynn

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9 years ago

^^^ so I take it you're not a soccermom. Lol!!!

Glad to see you're proud with "you doing you" I think a lot of people would be more happy if they followed your footsteps

lopaw

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9 years ago

I am about as opposite of a soccormom as they come. But I have corrupted a few of them in my time ;)

tumblingdice

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9 years ago

An ex Gf's brother owns two seats on the NY Merc.Comes home early and finds the Spic poolboy in the closet in the master bedroom.I don't know how she did it but she got millions.I think maybe she had Shadow's wifes lawyer.

pensionking

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9 years ago

+1 Shailynn

Beware younger guys. Those of us that have been around recognize that many women are in it for just what Shail describes so accurately. Prenups might be brilliant.

mikeya02

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9 years ago

What I noticed is more girls are admitting to having girl crushes. Whether they act on it or not , they think about it.

san_jose_guy

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9 years ago

Much relational politics has always depended upon the exploitation of minor children. It is not just consenting adults harming themselves.

SJG
https://sites.google.com/site/sjgportal/

mjx01

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9 years ago

prenups are brilliant... if you can get her to agree to it. But of course she thinks a prenup means you don't really love her and you aren't planning on sticking around.

san_jose_guy

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9 years ago

Prenups were the big issue when Mic Jagger and Bianca were married. The ceremony was help up for hours because she refused to sign. She still today cites that as meaning that her marriage was doomed before it even started.

Mr. Rech, Exploitation means using people. Using people is abusing them. People have children, I am sorry to say, all to often because they are intending to do this. What people are taught to call a 'dysfunctional family', is actually child abuse. In saying that it is merely dysfunctional, people are making themselves accomplices in crime, as defined by US law.

SJG
https://sites.google.com/site/sjgportal/

Amnesty International Votes to Support Decriminalization of Sex Work
http://www.democracynow.org/2015/8/12/he…

DoctorPhil

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9 years ago

@Rech “you're the most unstable mother fucker here.”

and the most dysfunctional as well. i'll bet even that mentally defective psycho alucard would be saying "WTF?"

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