My CF hasn't been around in a month. She's never been the best communicator (she's a stripper), but it's been radio silence for a while.
This is the busy season for her "day job", and last I spoke to her she was talking about trying to get more work. I know she'd like to give up stripping and make a good living elsewise, but she can't make close to what she makes stripping.
It's also plausible she has a new bf. Her last bf started treating her differently when she admitted she stripped. So she's the kind of girl if she meets a new guy she might stop dancing for a while.
Anyways, my #2 just isn't filling the void. She's #2 for a reason. She's more of an appatizer than a main course. And the last couple times I've gone fishing for new girls, I haven't found anyone who caught my interest. Too many give me the ROB vibe or just aren't attractive.
Maybe I just need to take a break. Wait a month and the roster of any club changes. I've had a good time just watching and not spending much money, but I still miss what my CF provided.
Dancers dissapearing out of the blue is common – for the most part they stay in touch as long as they think they need us or might need us – but once they decided to break from dancing for w/e reason either temporarily or permanently they often cut off communication w/ the PLs.
The reasons could be anything from a new line of work; a BF; pregnancy, taking a break/vacation, etc. - who the f*** knows.