My CF hasn't been around in a month. She's never been the best communicator (she's a stripper), but it's been radio silence for a while.
This is the busy season for her "day job", and last I spoke to her she was talking about trying to get more work. I know she'd like to give up stripping and make a good living elsewise, but she can't make close to what she makes stripping.
It's also plausible she has a new bf. Her last bf started treating her differently when she admitted she stripped. So she's the kind of girl if she meets a new guy she might stop dancing for a while.
Anyways, my #2 just isn't filling the void. She's #2 for a reason. She's more of an appatizer than a main course. And the last couple times I've gone fishing for new girls, I haven't found anyone who caught my interest. Too many give me the ROB vibe or just aren't attractive.
Maybe I just need to take a break. Wait a month and the roster of any club changes. I've had a good time just watching and not spending much money, but I still miss what my CF provided.
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last commentDancers dissapearing out of the blue is common – for the most part they stay in touch as long as they think they need us or might need us – but once they decided to break from dancing for w/e reason either temporarily or permanently they often cut off communication w/ the PLs.
The reasons could be anything from a new line of work; a BF; pregnancy, taking a break/vacation, etc. - who the f*** knows.
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If one is into the CF style of SCing then this is unfortunately one of the pitfalls of that model – it also sucks if there are not a lot of good SCs in one's area where one can branch out a bit.
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I haven't had a real CF in months, partially because my normal club has had a weaker lineup the last 6 months than usual (and I've only half-heartedly checked out other clubs), and partially because I met a bodyrub girl who has out-ATFed my ATATF stripper... but she doesn't take the place of an ITC favorite who I can hang out with, well, ITC. I mostly gave up looking for a new CF months ago, choosing to just stay with my various #2s, but just a few weeks ago went on the prowl again
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There will be another bus along shortly. :)
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Happened to me earlier this year. Had a stripper as a booth call, ducked her a few times then she up a disappeared. Her stripper roommate saw me at the club and told me she had quit (because we all know how strippers cell phones are so reliable) but that she was doing ok. Either way she wasn't all that hot to me so I didn't bat a lash over it. That said haven't found such a reliable boots call since.
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This is why I try to keep things going with more than one at a time. Even with a DS, a good Boy Scout is always prepared.
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