Long Distance SS Advice?
seawa
Nevada
Got hit with some SS yesterday.
"Car payment is due in a few days, I'm so worried I'm going to lose my car. "
She didn't ask for anything but was obviously hinting. I'd love to use this to my advantage but I probably won't be in town to see this girl for a few weeks. Any ideas on how I could work this even though I won't see her for a while?
She's not pushing it at all but I just don't want to miss an opportunity.
"Car payment is due in a few days, I'm so worried I'm going to lose my car. "
She didn't ask for anything but was obviously hinting. I'd love to use this to my advantage but I probably won't be in town to see this girl for a few weeks. Any ideas on how I could work this even though I won't see her for a while?
She's not pushing it at all but I just don't want to miss an opportunity.
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Speaking from experience, nice guys finish last. Dead last.
I've NEVER got back services for fronting a girl money. Ever. So a long time ago, I stopped being the "save a ho" PL.
My advice is don't fall into the same trap.
Just tell her you don't have the cash, not after helping three other strippers with the car problems this week, and good luck in her future scams.
Some guys will say give her the $$$ and she'll give you the cuchie at a later time (or even work out a deal of 2 OTCs for helping her w/ her “emergency”; etc) – I would think if they do follow thru with post-payment cuchie that it may be a less inspired performance since in *her* stripper mind she is not getting paid.
Many will say it's bad to set a bad precedent – often times this sets the precedent for them to continuously use you as their emergency fund while them delivering less or not delivering at all.
I haven't done OTC with this girl but that was the plan for my next visit. As of now I think playing it safe and ignoring her messages is best. They stopped around 10 last night. I don't want her to rely on me for money and I agree with most of you that I wouldn't get any return on investment when I do see her.
Answered your own question.
Or you could just go with Jack's original advice.
The best way to deal w/ a bullshitter is to bullshit them – it may best to have some canned excuses in hand such as “my elderly sick mother is in hospice care of which I have to pay a large amount and thus I don't have the funds right now” - or something sad along those lines.
:)