One definition I'm still unclear on:
Is stick shifting always outside of the pants? At what point does it cross into a HJ? Like if the dancer sneaks her hand into your pants is that a HJ? Does she need to be trying to get you off?
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Stick Shifting or HJ?
Jul 10, 2015, 5:17 PM
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Great question. I've been on this board awhile and see the term in reviews quite often. And I've never know exactly what it means either!
I consider stick shifting is when a dancer grabs your dick during a routine lap dance and start moving and/or playing with it, either over or under your pants. Once she actually whips my dick outside of my pants and starts playing/jerking it in plain view, then for me that is when it turns into a HJ.
Everyone has their own definition but that is how I generally see it.
I believe the Supreme Court defines it as knowing it when it sees it.
^ LOL - was that a unanimous or just a majority, decision :)
Stick shifting > HJ
stick shifting is thru pants and is not an extra.
A hj requires unzipping and is a low level extra.
in other words stick shifting is a hj thru pants.
I've never hand a hj in a strip club. Strange realization. I should do it once for the hell of it. But what do I say? "Sorry honey, I don't want to fuck your mouth tonight, but I'll pay you extra for a hand job."?
I've had lots of unsolicited HJs in the course of getting lap or table dances. I could have stopped them but what the hell, it felt good so I just let them continue and then tipped them $20 on top of the cost of the dances. Makes for a cheap afternoon. I have never asked for one.
Most girls can't give a good hand job. I would never pay for one. Only I know what I like there. Now a blow job is something they seem to be better at. I will let them give me a blow job any day !
It's about intent. Stick shifting is just rubbing my dick intermittently to enhance the dance. It can be done through the pants or inside of them. A handjob is continuously jacking me off with the goal of making me come. Can't be done through the pants, at least with me.
+1 @Chandler
Agreed. For me, it is all about intent. Sticking shifting = the goal is to arouse. HJ = the goal is to ejaculate.
Maybe the judge made a legal ruling on this issue in Paula Jones's lawsuit against Bill Clinton for sexual harassment.
semantics – semantics – semantics :)
I guess stick shifting; whether over or under; is sorta grabbing, touching, or playing, with it – whereas a HJ is sorta like jerking it.
But maybe others can define it better.