Stick Shifting or HJ?

semantics – semantics – semantics :)

I guess stick shifting; whether over or under; is sorta grabbing, touching, or playing, with it – whereas a HJ is sorta like jerking it.

But maybe others can define it better.

Great question. I've been on this board awhile and see the term in reviews quite often. And I've never know exactly what it means either!

I consider stick shifting is when a dancer grabs your dick during a routine lap dance and start moving and/or playing with it, either over or under your pants. Once she actually whips my dick outside of my pants and starts playing/jerking it in plain view, then for me that is when it turns into a HJ.

Everyone has their own definition but that is how I generally see it.

I believe the Supreme Court defines it as knowing it when it sees it.

^ LOL - was that a unanimous or just a majority, decision :)

Stick shifting > HJ

stick shifting is thru pants and is not an extra.

A hj requires unzipping and is a low level extra.

in other words stick shifting is a hj thru pants.

I've never hand a hj in a strip club. Strange realization. I should do it once for the hell of it. But what do I say? "Sorry honey, I don't want to fuck your mouth tonight, but I'll pay you extra for a hand job."?

I've had lots of unsolicited HJs in the course of getting lap or table dances. I could have stopped them but what the hell, it felt good so I just let them continue and then tipped them $20 on top of the cost of the dances. Makes for a cheap afternoon. I have never asked for one.

Most girls can't give a good hand job. I would never pay for one. Only I know what I like there. Now a blow job is something they seem to be better at. I will let them give me a blow job any day !

It's about intent. Stick shifting is just rubbing my dick intermittently to enhance the dance. It can be done through the pants or inside of them. A handjob is continuously jacking me off with the goal of making me come. Can't be done through the pants, at least with me.

+1 @Chandler

Agreed. For me, it is all about intent. Sticking shifting = the goal is to arouse. HJ = the goal is to ejaculate.

Maybe the judge made a legal ruling on this issue in Paula Jones's lawsuit against Bill Clinton for sexual harassment.