This happens to me every once in a rare while when I am out clubbing. I'll be getting a dance from a beautiful girl and for some reason (maybe I've had an extra beer), I won't sport an erection during the first minute or so of the dance. Then I start to panic a bit and worry that the dancer (who is hot) will think she's not doing a good job. So then I'll concentrate too much on getting one (instead of letting it happen naturally), and then I'll really not be able to get one, and things will continue to descend into awkwardness.
In all cases, heading outside for a breath of fresh air--or going to sit at the bar for a bit--will fix things, and the next dance will come off without a hitch. Whenever this happens, though, it's embarrassing as hell. Thoughts?
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It's the dancer's job to give you an erection. I find that a blow job usually does the trick.
^^^ I like your style
I don't have any problem getting an erection, but sometimes it's hard for me to LDK when I should be able to or even cum from a HJ (maybe it's just me, but unless a girl really knows what she's doing it's very difficult for her to make me cum. im sure it's no different then why some guys suck at DATY. Some of them just jerk it around way to fast, don't grip it hard enough, etc). Anyway sometimes after a few minutes of either some heavy grinding or a HJ I'll think too much about cumming and then I can't. Once and a while I'll get close but then the dancer changes positions or something and then I can't cum and then at that point the desire is almost gone.
I've often found that I LDK when I'm not expecting to. I'll have gotten a couple dances and then next thing I know I can tell that I'm gonna cum, that's the best.
I agree with jack . If you aren't getting hard from a dance, there's nothing better than getting hard in her mouth, IMO.
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SJG
Don't sweat it – the beauty of being w/ dancers or escorts is that you don't have to perform – and most of them just care they get paid – that is your job as a custy; i.e. paying them a fair “wage” and not necessarily performing (they are the ones that need to perform).
If you are trying to get extras; then yeah it can be a bit of an issue – o/w just enjoy the dance (grab some titties).
There can be several factors affecting wood – for me it is often stress/worry or slapping the monkey too often.
Never had that problem. If I don't get hard during the dance, it's because the dancer isn't giving a good dance. When I do lose my erection, it's usually either the dancer is pressing too hard that it becomes uncomfortable, or the dancer lets up.
I've had this issue and it sucks....if u can relax it helps
And of course if she will blow u it will always help :)
Dooming your erection by overthinking is definitely non-brilliant! :(
Try not to do it! :)
An erection is a terrible thing to waste.
Yes, and I appreciate that more now that I am no longer so young.
SJG
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