Let her know you are a customer; not her BF or S.O. - and you are there to have a good time not to make *her* feel good.
Whether it's somebody she does not like; or pretty much any other dancer; dancers often don't like other dancers getting what they think is their $$$/sale.
You gotta like your CF enough to one to be exclusive w/ her – if you don't then you gotta be willing to lose her – alhtough more often than not the dancer backs down and may even treat you nicer once she realizes she doesn't have you wrapped around her garter.
Tell her you're not married to her and let her storm off and stay away or come back and not worry about it. Or better yet, ask her reasons why she doesn't like her. They might be lies or she might say something to peak your interest or both.
From what I can tell, dancing with your fave's arch-enemy is, from your fave's point of view, the worst thing you can do to her. It's like the Floozypocalypse. I remember I did a dance with the arch-enemy of an old ATF, and she told me, "now she's won and I've lost. Every time I walk by her she gives me a little bitchy smile."
So, this girl is your current fave. If she became your current fave by going the extra mile for you, charging you less, giving you more time, doing every act you enjoy, then the one fucking thing you can do for her is to not dance with her one sworn enemy (at least until that girl is NOT her sworn enemy, and some other girl becomes her sworn enemy, probably in a week or two). It's not like she's mad at you for dancing with any other girl, it's that one specific girl, who is going to laud it over her head all night, and make her feel bad.
If your CF hasn't done much for you, then dance with whoever you want and sure, give the whole "we're not married" speech or whatever as advised above. But if the girl is coming through for you, you can show a little appreciation.
Just my opinion, which I realize is contrary to every other response.
Are you kidding subraman? The guy should dance wherever his dick points. Come on, you want him to get involved in stripper drama? Stripper drama makes me want to put a gun to my head.
Diva: I bet! I don't "want" him to get involved in stripper drama, he IS involved in stripper drama :) What I'd like for my forum bro is: if his CF doesn't mean too much to him, who cares who she likes or hates, he should do what he wants. If she's gone the extra mile for him, and he's potentially got months of mind-blowing sex ahead of him, he shouldn't blow that just to make a theoretical point about how they're not married.
Papi: yeah, true, maybe he didn't know he was dancing with the enemy, ain't nobody got time to keep track of the cliques
I had a dancer call me one night after going to see her at her club. She had been ignoring me so I was just sitting there bored when another girl with nice 36 DDD boobs came and sat with me and gave me some attention. We went to the dance room for 3 very passionate dances totally hands on. My ATF saw us go back. She screamed at me on the phone "what's wrong my titties ain't big enough for you". (She has 36 C) I just explained to her if that's the way she wanted to treat me SHE WAS DONE ! FIRED! I would never spend another dime on her. The next day she called and apologized. She said she would never do it again if I would allow her to dance for me again.We were friends after that for another year and a half or so till I moved on.
We have a hard enough time remembering some of their names. Don't even try to quiz us on all their names because that'l never happen. There's no way we could EVER remember who hates who and/or why nor would we care.
Actually I really didn't know until after that she REALLY doesn't like this girl. She had mentioned little things before about her but it sounded like jealousy and at the time she had nothing to be jealous about. She had become my CF and I was only getting dances from her but then I started feeling like she was taking me for granted so reading some on here I decided one night AFTER she left (I had already gotten dances from her before she got off work) to get a few from this other girl that I had gotten dances from a few times in the past before my CF came back to working at this club again. I am usually totally loyal to whoever my CF is but didn't like that she was taking me for granted and this other girl asked me for a dance right after my CF left.
Thanks man ! I knew I was doing the right thing all the time no matter what she thought. It was fun playing the asphyxiation game with those titties ! That's the way I want to die !!!
Well, as I said, if your CF isn't treating you right, then all's fair. And that goes double if you didn't even know that was her arch enemy ... AND you did it while she wasn't even in the building. I'm with ya
Only once DS got mad caused I danced with her "enemy." I didn't know but in response I vowed to myself to never get dances from the enemy girl again. Why? I'm not gonna fuck up something perfect just to make a point about my "rights." Fuck my rights. I just want her.
Some dancers like to add a lot of drama. I think one time I had no clue why the dancer was so pissed off at me. She actually quit working at the club for 3 months because she knew I would be there. This was a long time ago in NC. When she came back, she was all nice and friendly like nothing ever happened. The last time a dancer got pissed off at me, I just told her I wasn't sleeping with another dancer and she calmed down. Apparently she got attached to me real quick. It bothers me a little bit that some dancers remember me from years ago and I don't remember them at all. Drama can be expected if dancers become attached.
Where does a dancer get the right to act as if a customer is the equivalent of a high school "steady" boyfriend? Would she feel that way if you were broke?
I seem to be the go to guy for two or three girls at my usual but I will, and do, change it up often. They sometimes tell me "don't go with her"I will ask why not. Sometimes I get good intel and sometimes lies. I have CF's but they are only as good as their last outing. My money my rules.
I've gotten to the point that I just tell them: "If you only want me to get dances from you, then how about I tell you that you can't give any dances to any other guy while you are at work."
It usually brings them back to reality.
Strip club dancers by nature, tend to bring a lot of drama on themselves. I used to play along. Now, I don't put up with it.
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Whether it's somebody she does not like; or pretty much any other dancer; dancers often don't like other dancers getting what they think is their $$$/sale.
You gotta like your CF enough to one to be exclusive w/ her – if you don't then you gotta be willing to lose her – alhtough more often than not the dancer backs down and may even treat you nicer once she realizes she doesn't have you wrapped around her garter.
If not then fuck her it's your money
So, this girl is your current fave. If she became your current fave by going the extra mile for you, charging you less, giving you more time, doing every act you enjoy, then the one fucking thing you can do for her is to not dance with her one sworn enemy (at least until that girl is NOT her sworn enemy, and some other girl becomes her sworn enemy, probably in a week or two). It's not like she's mad at you for dancing with any other girl, it's that one specific girl, who is going to laud it over her head all night, and make her feel bad.
If your CF hasn't done much for you, then dance with whoever you want and sure, give the whole "we're not married" speech or whatever as advised above. But if the girl is coming through for you, you can show a little appreciation.
Just my opinion, which I realize is contrary to every other response.
Papi: yeah, true, maybe he didn't know he was dancing with the enemy, ain't nobody got time to keep track of the cliques
In your defense most man cannot and should not pass up 38DDDs (I wouldn't).
Thanks man ! I knew I was doing the right thing all the time no matter what she thought. It was fun playing the asphyxiation game with those titties ! That's the way I want to die !!!
I've had girls pull that shit with me.
I've gotten to the point that I just tell them: "If you only want me to get dances from you, then how about I tell you that you can't give any dances to any other guy while you are at work."
It usually brings them back to reality.
Strip club dancers by nature, tend to bring a lot of drama on themselves. I used to play along. Now, I don't put up with it.
LOL – I think that applies to most women – strippers just take it to a whole, other, level.