Too Much Information
shailynn
They never tell you what you need to know.
It seems like now when I go into a club and if someone else got a service I am looking for, for less money I feel like I'm getting ripped off. If someone says they were with a "9" but I can only find an "8" on the night I was there I feel undersold. Does anyone else find themselves doing this?
Sadly it's not that easy, and a lot of factors play into this that I often forget and overlook. Maybe a reviewer had a "chemistry" with a dancer and she offered him more than she usually does to others. She meets me and just sees me as another customer not offering anything special. The guy that got full service for $120 may have meet the dancer 30 minutes before closing time and she hadn't made any money that night, the night I met her she may have already done 3 VIPs and already made over what her expected quota was and would rather just relax and drink the rest of the night.
I think sometimes I need to just throw my expectations out the door and remember someone getting something better may have also had a lot more tries than me. I'm not bitter or jealous, just trying to create an enjoyable experience for myself and take advantage of all the information available to me. It would be similar to your friend telling you about this great meal they had at a restaurant they know you'd like. You go a few nights later, order the same thing and it sucks. Therefore you question what went wrong and why, not questioning your friend because they know what you like and you trust their advice/recommendation.
Alas, I'm sure this happens in everyones jobs and daily lives as well, when you have 24hour access to emails, documents and the Internet in your hand literally all the time. The only time my smartphones (yes plural) arent on me is when I am having dinner or when I'm in the shower. Ugh!
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More seriously, I think you're right in your assertion that you sometimes need to throw away your expectations. Look at the data, looks for patterns and trends, then pick the most likely and hope for the best.
There are far too many variables involved in this stuff to make anything a sure bet.
You'll probably have more fun if you go in more open minded.
As far as getting as good a deal as the next guy, I try to keep in mind that not all club reports are accurate. Guys can be competitive and may not report what they actually spent because they don't want to be accused of overpaying. If one guy says he spent $150 for FS in VIP, the next guy probably isn't going to admit he spent $180. That's like admitting you "lost." Just have fun!
Don't think I have a spreadsheet out in my car or something, I usually will choose a handful or clubs in an area that have gotten good recent reviews or because of a positive experience I have had there in the past. I have never sought out a particular dancer based on a review. I have gone to the message boards and reviews to try to reconnect with a dancer I have met in the past though... That's a different story.
I'm not worried in my "value" rating per say, but like anyone else, I don't want to be paying $400 for the same thing a guy in the next booth over is only paying $175 for... But value is perceived only from the person paying for it.
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I've never sought out a particular dancer due to a report on this site or any other site.
I'm more interested in what the club is like. Is the management cool? Are the girls beautiful? Stuff like that.
I'm usually able to pick out a winner from the girls working.
If not, no big deal.... I just try again on another day.