What should I do?

There is one decent backup club in town that would be an ok choice but the ATF's club is my fav.

All your DS stories paint her as pretty game for anything, even if she is young! So I say, threesome would be brilliant! Go for it!

If you are not going for the threesome then what is the point of going to that club when decent other club available? I think you risk bad feelings with each of the girls with no upside other than the ménage. It could work out but also could backfire and fuck up your situation. A bush in your hand is worth more than your bird in two bushes?

Ah, they are not your girlfriends. They will do what they are game to do and NOT ONE BIT MORE. Otherwise, if they blow a gasket say "oh, I didn't realize we were an item, are we a couple? Oh, then you shouldn't be to worried, because there are lots of fish in this aquarium for both of us."

Go w/ your PL gut feeling and live with that.

If you're not going with plans to set up a threesome then you should pass on taking DS to the club UNLESS you can make sure that ATF will not be there.

But... You're a guy and guys have egos and I'm guessing you almost want to see 2 hot girls start drama because the drama would be all over you. I've done stupid things like this in the past and although you may not hold DS or ATFs feeling in high regard, if those two universes collide someones going to leave with hurt feelings and that someone could even be you. you don't wanna be that guy.

I'll never forget I was with my ATF years ago, and these two girls in a club started flirting hard with me and I flirted back. When my ATF saw this go down she was crushed. I felt like such as asshole, I realized she thought she was more to me than just a piece of ass probably by the respect I gave her up until that point. Once you cross the line, it's hard to get that respect back. I can't blame her one but for being upset, I would be too if she flirted with a other guy in front of me.

And Anastasia screamed in vain.

Bring the threesome idea up gently and see how it goes

Sounds like a 3some is far from a done deal. Are you not-so-secretly hoping for a cat fight over your attention? What is your true agenda in doing this?

I think you're looking for trouble John;) go to the other club. You don't want to alienate your ATF and DS at the same time, then where would you be?

^^^ definitely a down side

Thanks for the advice. I think I'll just go to the second choice club unless I can confirm that the ATF is not working. It's not worth risking the damage that could be done by a meeting.

What's the goal of going to a club with the DS? I'm extremely unclear what the objectives here are.

I'd lean towards second choice club, depending why it's second choice. You have a girl you're gonna fuck even of its a dud night, right?

It sounds like ATF is more of a backup plan at this point, your fallback if (and when) something goes bad with DS.

I'd ask DS her feelings on threesomes. From experience they're usually better if the girls have chemistry with each other.

I'd be very hesitant to do this.

My experience has been that many times, (ok, most times) girls at clubs tend to "claim" customers as their own.
Many of these girls are VERY territorial.
And to introduce 2 girls that know of each other as interests (and source of money/income to them) that this might go very, very wrong if both are not down with sharing you.

I personally, wouldn't do it.

You only live once, I would go for the threesome, it could be the best time of your life.

Or, you could lose your DS to your ATF... Stranger shit has happened!

What are the chances you could lose the ATF?

What are the chances you could lose the DS?

What are the chances you could lose BOTH?

Worth it?

Since you are apparently the only one that has ever had a DS, You are probably asking the wrong group of guys. :)

@shadowcat: I'm pretty sure what I had was even better than a DS, but I'm also pretty sure most here would not consider it so, for a wide variety of reasons.

I will freely and pathetically admit that I would not trade the smallest instant of time with my ATF for a year, or a lifetime, of JS69's DS, even assuming all he says is absolute truth.

Brilliant advice warhawks:)

I wouldn't do it -- even if ATF is not working that day. If anyone there knows about you and ATF, they could rat you out to ATF just to fuck you up.
Don't shit where you eat and never, ever fuck up a good thing. Not worth the upside.
Any attempt at a three-way has to be discussed and agreed to well in advance by all parties -- and STILL there would be a risk of it going sour. In this one way, most women, in my experience, are like 10 year-old boys -- they don't tend to share well.

Good luck!

Bottom line, as many comments have reminded me, is I never want to do anything to jeopardize the DS relationship. The ATF is fun but pales in comparison.

I'm going to slowly explore a threesome in a non-threatening way that would involve a friend of the DS. She'd be most comfortable with that, if anything.

GMD, have you shared details of your better than a DS dancer? If so please post links cause I missed it. If not, please tell all. Not only would it be fun reading but maybe some skeptics would believe me if they knew that I'm not the only one.

Scattered all over my articles.

https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=1…
https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=2…
https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=3…
https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=3…

Though that second one isn't about me, obviously.

Pension took the words right out of my mouth. Even if the ATF isn't working that night, somebody is and will tell on you.

Just wondering, is your avatar your DS?

Diva, no. My avatar is the hottest girl I've ever seen on the Internet. But I promised the DS her pics would remain private.

An update, we never made it to any club last night. Got high and before we could leave I started kissing her neck. She loves that. 1 and a half hours and six orgasms later (2 for me, 4 for her), we fell asleep. Gonna try for a club tonight instead. Now it's time for me to go wake her up.

Lol.

You are certainly not the first person to smoke up and say "fuck it, let's just stay in"

We talked about this when I first joined, last summer, about taking a stripper to a strip club. I suggested against it, just like you don't want to take a waitress to a restaurant. The girl will expect you to tip their people generously. And you aren't getting anything for it. You aren't really free to engage. No reason to put yourself through that.

I suggest think of some other sort of a place to take her to. She already works in a strip club. She doesn't need to go there.

Look for something more like a sex club, the more radical version of a swingers club, where most of the people are not old, ugly, and married. Lots of such people just dance with the one who brought them. But watching and being watched is a real turn on.

Otherwise just think of something else.

SJG

So here's how things went. I told her that my fav club in town is where my ATF works. She knew there was another dancer somewhere that I used to "date." Her response was that she really wanted to meet the ATF. She said it would be fun, and sounded totally not threatened. So we went to the ATF's club. But ATF wasn't there. Might go again tonight.

Geez, how can your DS sound so naughty yet so innocent and naïve at the same time? ; )

Good luck, John. I hope this doesn't turn into a 2am report.

PG wrote:

"Geez, how can your DS sound so naughty yet so innocent and naïve at the same time? ; )"

JS69, from your first postings about this DS, it has sounded like she was both naughty and nice, or that she knew how to tell old farts the sorts of things they wanted to hear.

Anyway, I'm glad things are continuing to go well for you and she. I for one would not take a dancer, or any other kind of a girlfriend, to a strip club. I would come up with something else.

SJG

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