I always thought a MILF was "Mom I'd Like to Fuck" regardless of age.
So was chatting to one of my CF strippers, who is super hot 25 YO with a 5 YO son, and complimented her by calling her a MILF. Shit! I got blasted when she told me that MILFs are much older in her opinion. I told her it applies to any hot mother like herself. All was forgiven and got some HM dances from her in a club that normally does not have HM dances.
Is MILF age based in your opinion?
Is GILF derogatory if she is a grandmother at 32 yo?
I apply it to Mom's of any age, reserving cougar for the older set.
18-20s is just a hot young woman, mom or not.
30s or 40s is MILF.
I ignore 50s and above so not sure what to call them.
Brilliant!
I took a wayward stripper home a few weeks ago who had nowhere to stay for the night. She was I think 22 so gorgeous and slender. I couldn't believe she had a kid when she told me I would just say she's a hot girl rather than a milf.
It's a context thang. Don't call anyone a MILF at any church function. If you work at a place where more than one person could be called "boss", probably too big to use terms like MILF around co-workers who are not also reasonably good friends.
At a strip club, if a stripper calmly asked me not to call her that again, that's fine. If she got bent the first time someone called her that, she's probably a grouch at best and a ROB at worst.
Of course, if a woman has never mentioned having children, and you call her a MILF, then just bleed quietly as she tears you a new one.
Diva1975 - a favorite dancer once told me that "no hot woman should ever be homeless". She made it clear that most men have a couch or other sleeping arrangement for beautiful women.
I would say it could be derogatory to any female who takes offense being referred to as fuckable. Some people are prudes. Of course that group of people probably would be offended by strip clubs themselves and would rarely if ever go to a strip club web site.
Of course if a female has it in her head that whatever you are talking about refers to something she is not, then she could get offended and you might not even know why.
Just remember 18 year old strippers only have a high school education at best and some teachers don't teach very well.
I don't think I have ever called a stripper a MILF but if I did and she was offended by it then I would have to reclassify her as MIWF. W=wouldn't.
Oh Christ shadow like your schlong is such a special gift or something.
Y'know, years ago, when I first heard the term "MILF", I assumed it was talking about hot young moms, the 24 year old in yoga pants with a tight ass pushing a stroller. Thanks to porn I've learned the term is often not used that way.
Unfortunately I feel like the term has come to mean "old chick I'd still fuck".
30+
Cougar is a sexy older woman.
People use to think of single/divorced mothers as frumpy losers who couldn't hold on to their man. But times change, there is little to no stigma now to being a single mom. Guy are somewhat better now about spending time with their kids after breaking up with the baby mama. So baby mama can go out and hook up every other weekend when the kids are with dad. MILF was the term that emerged for the growing number of hot young single moms who, while searching for the real Mr. Right, were up for knocking boots with Mr. Right Now.
It's only in porn that MILFs are always cougars. Fortunately, there are not enough very sick fucks to create a market for any kind of porn scenario that would involve a woman with young children. In porn, a MILF is always a woman with a teen or college age son who fucks her son's friend. Or five of them. All at the same time.
A MILF could technically be any woman with a kid. BUT..........I've always sorta thought a MILF was someone mid to late 20's, 30's and maybe 40's. I guess 25-45? Someone who was a little older but was hot and very fuckable (i.e.:mrs seaboard...shhhhh). Cougars, 45ish+ MILF's. 50ish+? We're a ways away from that so they aren't even on our radar and have no terminology. I guess 50+ would still be considered a cougar, maybe.
Crap, i didn't even answer the question. I would say most women under 30 might be offended being called a MILF. It might behoove a man to bite his tongue until he knows their thoughts on the term.
Your question, "Is MILF Derogatory to Younger Mothers?"
Only to those that feel it is. Most ANY comment made in this world might be considered derogatory by someone. I don't much concern myself with what others might think of my words. They, and Only they, can decide what a comment means to them. Truth be known, I really don't care what they may think. It is MY opinion and they may have any reaction that pleases them! On the flip side, they don't have to concern themselves about my thoughts on their reply.
Heck, my ATF owns GILF (Grandma ....) at a very young 44. I find it hot as hell that she is right at the top of desirability in a club with lots of hot women.
Well, I don't get offended when strippers call me a DILF (Dad I'd like to Fuck).
So they shouldn't get offended if I call them a MILF. lol.
Didn't Britney Spears wear a 'MILF in Training' T shift when she got pregnant the first time at 24.
Yes she did have 'MILF in Training' T shift ... I wonder if Shadowcat gave it to her?
I generally think of MILFS in their 30's at least.