Dating Civvie cutting into my SC Funds.
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Un-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
Anyway. I haven't been able to go to my local SC like I used to because my titty fund is being "invested" into a longer term and hopefully eventually cheaper alternative.
Still dammit, so hard to break the urge to go to the SC, but that will mean the next date were eating speghetti-o's on her birthday weekend.
So how can I get my stripper fix with $50 to spend (actually $40 beer usually cost about $7)
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Consider taking a break from clubbing. You can stash the cash you're saving for the future, and if you are back at the club on 3 or 6 months half the girls will be new to you (but past their low milage new girl stage).
It's possible to go to the club, see some tits, have a beer or two but skip the LDs. But if that's not your style it may be tough to adapt.
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Keep throwing money at strippers and practice flirting with them. Eventually you'll end up doing it OTC with civvie chick's because your brain has been trained that it's all good. So any time you have a extra $100 go to the local dive strip clubs where there is just a handful of dancers and it will force you to engage. Then after those training wheels are of move on to bigger clubs. Most guys who want to be player are not because they just don't know how to be relaxed around women. I'm cheering for you.
"Life is a cinch inch by inch, but hard by the yard" 6th grade teacher told me that.
I wouldn't let the SC get in the way of a good relationship if you think it's a long term one but at the same time each person need to be completely open to everything or eventually one of you will feel trapped. Sex and money ruin relationships when one party has very strict views. People fight over money and get divorced. People have affairs when one of them loses desire for the other. If you can both openly talk about money and sex then you'll probably be at a SC as a couple having fun for a long time together.
I think I might've gone a little too deep for TUSCL...lol
1} play it for all its worth without a commitment: do not let her move in or vice versa (keep nothing at her place and allow her to keep nothing at yours or the next thing you will know you will open a bathroom drawer and find tampons) (if you make a commitment you will regret it the rest of you life)
2} NO KIDS if she mentions a kid or has a kid; bail immediately take her home tell her to have a nice life and leave, no last screw .. no nothing
3} if you get an ultimatum to commit... run away very fast and do not look back
If you have trouble with any of these rules I suggest strip club therapy with a dose VIP to get your big and little heads in sync.
Always remember 60% of all marriages end in divorce and the other 69% are miserable!
I disagree on the kids. If she wants you to MEET her kids, that's a red flag. But single moms are some of the hottest sluts out there. No single.mom makes you wait to the third date to fuck. She's not going to keep paying a babysitter and not get laid.
Ultimatums aren't good. It should be your idea if you want to commit, and I get the vibe you're not ready for that. If she gives an ultimatum, call her bluff and walk away.
But there are girls out there in their 20s who are looking to have fun. They're a decade away from having kids. Sure, they may want someone safe and reliable and a "boyfriend" rather than just a fuck buddy. But don't assume she's demanding more of a commitment too early.
I did go to the club last night. Luckily my bonus check came thru So it was a little treat to myself.
No I'm not ready to settle down, but I don't mind engaging in a legitimate GFE now and again :)