Clubs for my Wife
mark.david
Recently, my wife and I were in Vegas together and I jokingly asked her if she wanted to go to a strip club. To my surprise, she said yes. We then spent the most fun few hours of my life. She's very pretty, and the girls were all over her. The club had pretty high milage, and they were kissing her and sucking on her nipples.
We're dying to repeat the experience on a somewhat regular basis. Trouble is, we live in NYC, which (as I'm sure many of you know) sucks as-far-as milage goes. So we're trying to figure out what to do. Like many NYers, we don't own a car. But I guess we could rent one and drive someplace. Or we could take a bus/train/etc.
Where should we go? I want to take her someplace classy (she wouldn't be into a dive) where she can touch the dancers. Is there any place close by, or do we need to fly back to Vegas (that could get expensive!).
Is there ANYTHING we could do in NYC? I know there's an underground scene, but I don't really know how to get into it or whether or not they be accepting of a couple. Would we be better off with swing clubs? Hiring a prostitute?
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Dragman - apparently you have no idea what you are talking about. Most swingers are couples that are very secure in their relationships - some married for 20-30 years. In fact, if you are not secure in your relationship then swinging isn't for you. People have such a misconception of swinging. Don't preach on a subject that you know nothing about or have never experienced.
Fondl - as for high class clubs, swing clubs are actually very cheap. They are usually BYOB with a fee for the "party". We have gone to clubs and paid anywhere from $50 to $100 a party. That included food (sometimes a full meal), D.J., party favors, full use of the facilities, i.e. hot tub, rooms, etc. I'd like to see you go to a strip club and come away as satisfied for the same amount of money!
If she likes to dress sexy, she can go all out at these clubs, and I mean ALL out. If she is bi-curious this is a very safe environment for her to explore those possibilities also (I did!).
We have also met some of the nicest people at these clubs and have a whole new circle of friends. We have also attend strip clubs with some of these people and it can be lots of fun too.
If you would like more information you can email us.
We're planning a weekend in Vegas shortly and keen to find 'couple-friendly' clubs.
My wife and I have gone to a couple of places around where we live and on the road.
Big Earl's Goldmine & The Lumberyard in Des Moines, IA.
-those are both good places, and they are friendly to women, and there is good contact BOTH ways. But they are not high class.
The Penthouse in Denver, CO.
-This has the added benefit of not being a "dive" but there less two-way contact.
So in answer to your question, since both of those aer pretty far away from you, I would consider FBSM.
Full Body Sensual Massage can be a good alternative. Usually the ASP will be accomadating as to what you want. IF you only want some lap dances with touching both ways, you can get that, or if you want actual massage with an erotic touch, they can do that. Of course, if you want something more than that... that is a gray area...you can ask me about that off-board.
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