first of all i think slutty in your eyes is dirty, all of us can be slutty at times if we want i have been registered to this site quite a while now and i guess stupid me thought she might meet someone nice that might be interested not some smart asses who think they are better them some
What led you to believe you'd meet someone nice here? A bunch of old, married men who cheat on their wives with strippers? Hell, I wouldn't even date myself if I were me.
Well, we aren't all old married men who cheat on their wives but I maybe 95% of the people here are men. We're definitely in the minority and I think we may be the only couple on here. (My wife goes to SC's with me and loves it and reads the discussions here daily. It was her idea for us to start going). If you're looking for a female to play with both of you on a regular basis then it's going to take y'all some time. Your best bet will be swingers clubs, regular dance clubs or even online through adult friend finder or 3-some website so you can meet and get to know someone and feel them out first. SC's will take a while because you'll first need to find a dancer who is open to couples and then get to know her and get her comfortable with you. After a while and many LD's to feel out boundaries you can start talking about simply hanging out OTC and see where it goes. I'd say SC's for couples takes longer than the other ways but at least it's fun while you're working on the end goal.
I could be wrong but your post sounded like this wouldn't be for BOTH of you so if you're just wanting a 1-off experience for him then I'd say go online to backpage or places like that and find someone you'd both be happy with and just pay for it. It'd be a lot quicker to setup.
In my experience swinger clubs are a terrible way to meet single women for three ways. YMMV by club and market of course.
When my crazy bi ex and I were in the game we mostly used Craigslist with occasional bar hookups, one old college friend of hers, and one old fuck buddy of mine who came back on the market.
^ Which is why no one wants to go to Ben & Jerry's with Clubber ; )
Seriously though, Sassie, if you're looking for a threesome, this really isn't the site for that. Like others have suggested, Adultfriendfinder could yield better results, as could SocialSex (see link at the top of the page) and any number of other dating sites. Forums on Theeroticreview, Bigdoggie, and even NaughtyReviews might help you find an escort up for a threesome. You might even want to check the personals of your local papers, especially the smaller indies.
Depending on where you live, if there are any gay/lesbian bars around, you could try there. Apparently there's a couple here in Louisville and the pickings can be fine, especially if you're looking for a woman.
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I could be wrong but your post sounded like this wouldn't be for BOTH of you so if you're just wanting a 1-off experience for him then I'd say go online to backpage or places like that and find someone you'd both be happy with and just pay for it. It'd be a lot quicker to setup.
When my crazy bi ex and I were in the game we mostly used Craigslist with occasional bar hookups, one old college friend of hers, and one old fuck buddy of mine who came back on the market.
Really, "A bunch of old, married men..."? I'm not old, just well seasoned.
Really, "A bunch of old, married men..."? I'm not old, just well seasoned.
BTW...
A smart ass is one that can sit naked on 5 gallon tub of ice cream and tell you the flavor.
Seriously though, Sassie, if you're looking for a threesome, this really isn't the site for that. Like others have suggested, Adultfriendfinder could yield better results, as could SocialSex (see link at the top of the page) and any number of other dating sites. Forums on Theeroticreview, Bigdoggie, and even NaughtyReviews might help you find an escort up for a threesome. You might even want to check the personals of your local papers, especially the smaller indies.
Good luck.