Would you SPEND MONEY on a stripper if you knew she HATED you?

Unless I intend to become her regular customer, I don't give a rat's ass what goes on between her ears. The only thing of any importance is how she treats me. If she treats me the way I want to be treated, I'm happy. If not I'll move on. I'm 40 years older than she is, I don't expect her to think I'm Mr. Wonderful, I expect her to see me as a wallet, that's her job, that's why we're both there. It's a commerecial transaction, just like going to the movies, only more fun.

YES! I've done it in the past and would have NO qualms about doing it in the future. What is important to me are 1) looks and 2) acting ability and 3) skill. Even if a dancer is disgusted by and hates a customer she may still be capable of doing a good job; especially if the customer makes it clear that that is not a problem.