Uncomfortable Wasting a Dancer's Time . . .
Tuesday, March 1, 2005 3:06 PM
Too often dancers want to sit and talk. And, the more they talk the more I feel obligated to buy dances which I'm not really interested in. The reason I'm bringing up this topic is because I was reading about shy customers on stripper web. Some dancers may think I'm shy, but that isn't the case at all. Usually, most of the dancers even if attractive don't meet my requirements and I just don't have any real strong interest. When I see the right dancer my heart will race. It's a fantastic feeling. Anyway, sometimes the stripper just wants to waste some time before pursuing customers or waiting for customers to arrive. If I know she's not thinking of making a sale, then I can relax and make conversation.
I don't like being rude, but it is even worse letting some dancer think she can make some $$$ by being nice and friendly when that's irrelevant. It's even worse if I've previously bought dances from a dancer when desperate because then she is more likely to expect future dances.
I did have a successful strategy, but it really only works when the dancer has a similar culture. When dealing with god knows what expectations then it is a lot more stressful.
On the one hand you want to be nice and on the other you don't want to lead the dancer on . . .
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