...you don't have much left in the tank for outside fun. Odd enough I have been facing this recently. I say odd because, with us both in our 40s with 3 kids that she cares for all day, things are not often this active. No skin off my teeth since my wife is still very fuckable, but there it is.
Anyone else face this from time to time?
Never ever had that "problem". Maybe she's looking at porn or going to male strip clubs and that's got her all worked up.
@Dougster: Yes she is, but she still expects to be supported in the lifestyle to which she is accustomed. ;)
@JS: she is definitely not going to males strip clubs since she rarely gets out at all (remember, 3 young kids). But porn? Who knows - I'm not there all day to monitor her Internet activity.
Supposedly women peak sexually in their 40's. I don't remember where I heard that, but if a 40-something chick is still hot, I'm in.
If that were the case for me, strip clubs wouldn't see near as much of my business. I don't suffer from the need for variety, I just like it. The MILF and the Fuck Machine have been keeping me mostly satisfied lately.
That doesn't make much sense for a biological POV. Their years of having the best eggs for babies are well behind them along with their peak health. Maybe they are just in a rush to get their last sex chance for children in before menopause?
This isn't an issue for anyone I know that's been married for longer than a year.
I read something not too long ago that said that women peaking later was bullshit.
Young women in their 20s definitely and absolutely have a stronger sex drive than women in their 40s. I'm sure there's the occasional aberration, but I know lots of girls in their 20s and lots of married men in their 40s, and there's no comparison.
Nope. Read it in some medical journal somewhere that its a fact. Nothing to do with wanting to pop out more rugrats. If I can find the link I'll post it.
I agree with sclvr5005. As I recall males peak at 18. Females in their 40's.
"I know lots of girls in their 20s and lots of married men in their 40s, and there's no comparison."
huh? What are you trying to say, John?
Seems to change depending what you read, what year you read it, etc. Also almost everything seems to be "word of mouth" 2nd, 3rd, or 6th hand or anecdotal. It would be nice if someone could cite a good primary source. I also think there is a good chance it will vary from culture to culture.
Doesn't matter what scientists say. Are you going to believe them if they say the sky is brown? No because you can see the sky color. In like manner, we all know from observation that most women do not peek sexually in their 40s. Every man I know well in his 40s or 50s is sexually frustrated to some degree with his wife. But it's rare that a guy married to a woman in her 20s has anything like the same degree or type of sexual frustration. Women are far more sexually inclined when they are younger. If women peaked sexually in their 40s, I also bet we'd see a lot more strippers and escorts in their 40s.
The reason that there are few 40 yo strippers is because they won't make any money competing with 20yo's. Believe what you want to. It doesn't change anything.
JS: hey, I'm inclined to think 20s as well, but hearing from those who have looked at a statistically significant sample size and adjusted against other selection biases does seem to be a good practice.
I believe that the whole "women reach their sexual peak in their 30s" thing came from Kinsey's research. Apparently he found that women masterbated more as they reached their thirties. I'm not sure Kinsey himself states that conclusion, or if that's someone else's interpretation.
Of course, that's not the only conclusion one could reach from that data. It could also mean that they're just more comfortable with their sexuality and have less problem taking things into their own hands.
Usually people have to deal with the opposite problem. Once married, women become neurotic instead of erotic. They have this tendency anyway. So this sounds like a case where swingers clubs are in order. It is the women who make those venues work anyway, obviously.
SJG
My wife, Mrs. Palmer, can be sexually voracious at times.
Your wife's a stay at home mom, RickyBoy?