strippers issues are their own
dw.buckhaving fun
in response to "Dancers are people too" by georgmicrodong i wrote this want to hear your feedback if you al feel the same way about stripper issues. i wrote this off the cuff and didnt put too much effort into it.
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Even for an old cynic like me I find this a bit harsh, man.
A bit harsh but essentially correct. We all make decisions in life and have to deal with the consequences. Luck may have something to do with it, but very little in my thoughts. Generally, if you work hard/smart and don't give up, you have the opportunity to better your life. You may have to suck it up at times and deal with failures or others getting in your way. There are millions of people out there who started with nothing and have made successes of themselves and ther are millions who started off with a great deal and end up with nothing. Again, luck might be part of it but the choices made along the way are probably much more influential.
dw, if you go to your profile page or the side menu and click on "My Blogs", you should be able to edit your post. Put HTML paragraph markers, "<p>, in your text where you want the paragraphs to be.
GMD - your right we are not doing anything to perpetuate her problems, but we are supposedly helping. Every dollar we give helps and at least we get something out of it instead of paying it to her in welfare.
Great post! Life is what you make it.
Hey you forgot about one type of Dancer .. the kind that like it and do it because they like it .. I mean whats not to like ?
good exercise .. money, worship, independance,, flexable hours ,, and dont forget about the " conversations " .. thats is the best part ..
Some girls are lifers not out of need to have the money but out of love for the job it's self , I love music and looking at naked chicks all day ,, I love men and dancing for them and conversing ,, so why shouldn t i do it for as long as I want to ?
Some girls really go for the sympathy trip to get your money others just like earning it .
Dazymaz - i consider those the great strippers who keep their issues to themselves and have fun at work. i was more reffering to the ones that come to the guys complain about life their job and expect guys to feel sorry for them and pay them just because of their sob stories or they have false expectations of the stripper lifestyle... getting thousands of dollars a night getting rich to pay off thier problems.
when i find strippers who are really dancing for the fun of it and the reasons you explained, its a great night... she wants to have fun and so do I and i am willing to spend more on her to make the night great. i met one stripper that had issues (just broke up with her man had to move out started stripping again, didnt have a real place to live but the cheap motel had a kid living with her peoples etc.).. i asked her why did she come back into dancing and she mentioned her issues but remained positive about it all. she quickly stated her issues but said she loves it, making contacts, dancing, music, getting with guys, getting herself off during dances. it wasnt a woes is me, i need money, you need to shell out big cash before she gets interested etc.... lets just say the night went and ended great and we both had a great time.