Feel a little guilty
footballguy
NC
She remembered me a couple weeks ago and when I came in the other night she still remembered her. I think I'm pretty close to being a regular of hers now. She came over to say hi shortly after I arrived. She came back a while later and we talked for a bit. She opened up a little bit and even showed me a few pictures on her phone.
I got several LD's from her and about halfway through she mentioned that it's getting better cause we know what we like during the LD's. The dances also started to get a little hotter towards the end, so I feel like that's also a good time. I haven't gone VIP with her yet, mainly cause she hasn't asked me yet.
So after we finished she said she hoped to see me again and we went out separate ways in the SC.
I had my eye on another dancer that I wanted to get a LD from before going to VIP (mainly cause I knew I would get some very good high mileage). After a couple LDs we were walking out of the booth and I saw dancer #1 coming out of a booth. Not sure if she saw me or not.
Anyway we went back into the VIP for a bit. After a very satisfying experience I came out of the VIP area and dancer #1 was there. I think she saw me but she didn't say anything.
I normally have no problem going from dancer to dancer but now that I feel like I'm a regular of dancer #1 I feel a little guilty. I know I shouldn't cause they just view us as money but it still felt a little awkward. I just don't want her to think that I don't want to go VIP with her.
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I hate to sound cold about it, but don't worry about her feelings so much. You're there to have a good time and she's there to make money; like you said, it's business. And she isn't the only dancer available; don't let her get you to think she is.
You need to take Dancer #1 to the VIP on your next strip club visit to make it up to the poor girl. Probably should bring her candy & flowers, too. Sheesh!
By the way, if you go to SCs somewhat regularly, it's time to start posting reviews of the clubs you visit. That's how this place works.
Bottom line – one should be with a dancer b/c one wants to – not b/c one feels any kind of obligation to her.
Most of these women have a man at home and that is who they care about – you pretty much just represent a pile of money to them – if it wasn’t for your $$$; they would not give a shit about you nor give you their time or anything else.
One does not need to be an a-hole about it; but if she (or any other dancer) has an issue w/ you not spending $$$ on her; just let her know that you want to try other dancers and you only have so much money since you are not wealthy (I’m assuming) – if she has an issue w/ this; then she is just working you to get your $$$ by any means necessary including guilt; pouting; tales of woe; etc.
If $$$ is no issue for you and you want to be generous and give it away to help the dancers out; ok – but if you have a SC budget; then spend your budget according to what you want and not what the dancers want.
She was really pissed off after that. Accused me of sleeping with the other dancer after I just slept with her. I told her no I wasn't. She got over it real quick. Then she started calling me a player. Ridiculous. She was always full of bs. A player would have already slept with both girls and others.