Lapdances

No matter if it is a lap dance or what, I prefer facing me so that I can see the expression on her face. That can tell a lot.

A. Had one of the best ones ever last night. She was super skinny which is key. I want the little head gently caressed not crushed. Would have LDKed but I'm saving myself for OTC date tonight.

I like variety, so all of the them at some point in the dance.

A is my favorite by far.

However, many dancers will dance for you so that they don't have to see your face for the majority of the dance. I think they feel more comfortable dancing this way. Basically what I'm trying to say is, they want to limit/shorten the time that they are dancing for you face to face. I know I'm not the only one who has noticed this.

I love when we are face to face though, the more they stay in the cowgirl grind position, the more I'm willing to spend on them

By grind, I am going to assume you mean how she contacts Mr. Happy. I prefer her facing me and that allows me contact with her fun bags.

It depends. Is she a butterface or not?

Vikings is right that some girls want to turn away from you when dancing which as a tits guy is a problem for me. However I find the vast majority will turn when you ask them to as long as you are polite about it. Several have told me they turn initially because most guys want their ass. I find it hard to believe that most guys prefer an ass over tits and a pretty face.

A. I don't dance with girls whose faces I don't want to see, so that takes B out of it. Never been into C.

JohnSmith69,

So you've had several dancers tell you that the reason they turn initially is because guys want their ass? Hmmmm, interesting. I've always thought it was because they feel more comfortable that way. It makes perfect sense for me to assume that. If they are turned away from you, instead of facing you face to face, it doesn't seem as personal...which is obviously a benefit/plus for the dancer.

I'm an ass guy. Despite that, I love her facing me because I want to see her pretty face and most importantly, it feels more personal. I realize with me being an ass guy the cowgirl position doesn't give me the easiest access to her ass ( like the reverse cowgirl does) but when a dancer is facing you during most of the dance it feels like she's more into it.

the look on her face tells it all

a and b. never was into c. i dont care if shes face to face or facing away.

A friend of mine that happens to be married thinks he is not cheating on his wife if he never looks a stripper in the eyes during a lap dance(lol)--sometimes I'm glad I don't have such questions of conscience--lol

I like it when da bitch face me and I grab dat nice phat ass

I love when they get on their knees and do the titty grind.

I enjoy the face to face intimacy of a slow grind

A or B, so long as I am inside her.

I like her on her knees spit shinning my cock