Skill Level
jerikson40
New York
One topic that, IMO, is very important when strippers or women in general are concerned is the area of sexual skill level. But as important as it is, I never hear it discussed. You always hear how hot a provider is, but that's just not the whole story. You could have a 10+ girl who just lays flat on her back and does her nails while you bang her, and for me at least, that's a total waste.
Unfortunately, recently I've come across a surprisingly large number of strippers/lap dancers who seem to have very poor skills at making their customers feel good. Even VHM club dancers who seemed to be slam dunk for some excellent HJ or BBBJ or lap dance action turned out to be amazingly inept at the most common skills. I mean, a black dancer in a recognized black club in the heart of the hood, where mileage is king, couldn't even do a decent HJ. I came out of there with a dick that was rubbed sore.
Really? Lacking the most basic skills? I don't know. Maybe I've just encountered a bad spell, but in all my years is seems like something is missing with the current crop of dancers. They just don't seem to give a shit and would rather bury their heads in their cellphones than attend to a group of waiting customers. And when they do they're just not really into it.
Unfortunately, recently I've come across a surprisingly large number of strippers/lap dancers who seem to have very poor skills at making their customers feel good. Even VHM club dancers who seemed to be slam dunk for some excellent HJ or BBBJ or lap dance action turned out to be amazingly inept at the most common skills. I mean, a black dancer in a recognized black club in the heart of the hood, where mileage is king, couldn't even do a decent HJ. I came out of there with a dick that was rubbed sore.
Really? Lacking the most basic skills? I don't know. Maybe I've just encountered a bad spell, but in all my years is seems like something is missing with the current crop of dancers. They just don't seem to give a shit and would rather bury their heads in their cellphones than attend to a group of waiting customers. And when they do they're just not really into it.
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Tell you what...next time you see a chick pull out a sandpaper condom, just tell her you'd like a different girl. One that'll make you go "WEEE-YAWWW!!!"
Seriously though jerikson, just find better strippers. ITC p4p is always hit or miss and always has been in my experience. Just keep trying until you find a couple of good ones and then give them your repeat business. Simple.
I love black women. I often prefer black women. I've dated black women. And Asian women. And some/most stereotypes are based in some bit of reality. If you don't believe that you're dreaming.
Anyone who has been to some of the black clubs in the LA hood that I frequent knows very well that most black strippers are FAR more open to very/super high mileage than the average white stripper. And that's a good thing, not a bad/biased stereotype. It reflects, IMO, an attitude that is less selfish and more ready to please than many white girls. That's a good thing, IMO.
My only point here was a SENSE that in recent years the general attitudes of dancers seems to be changing overall towards a more self centered attitude. Maybe I'm wrong. Now you're free to blame that on my if it helps you feel better, but since none of you know squat about how I treat dancers, only your personal biases and stereotypes, I'd suggest you tap the brakes on your opinions a bit.
I also see this as one aspect of a general cultural shift towards a more self centered, instant gratification society, where kids especially seem to thing they should be superstars, and are more concerned about how many LIKES they get than anything.
But maybe I'm wrong.
Go ahead. We're waiting.
Not knowing what dougster said I can't comment.
And yes, you can say that the perspective and reality I inject into discussions might be seen as a buzzkill. Wow, that sucks ha? As someone recently mentioned to me, if you don't like it don't read it.
But with all the silly screwing around that is done on this forum, isn't a little different perspective something you can handle?
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Now at least two thirds of the dancers just think all they have to do is press down real hard on my cock and rub their ass slightly, and occasionally rub their tits in my face and I'll be happy.