Pay me what you think it was worth.
shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
Ever heard that from a stripper? I have. Several times and it has always been the result of unexpected services. I hate it because I really don't know what to give her. I don't want to over tip her and have her think that I'm a whale and I don't want to under tip her and appear like a cheapskate. So far I guess that I have been in the ball park because I never had any wrong feelings towards me. Lucky?
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Through sloth the roof sinks in, and through indolence the house leaks. Bread is made for laughter, and wine gladdens life, and money answers everything.
If you come across a bird's nest in any tree or on the ground, with young ones or eggs and the mother sitting on the young or on the eggs, you shall not take the mother with the young. You shall let the mother go, but the young you may take for yourself, that it may go well with you, and that you may live long.
The point is this: whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows bountifully will also reap bountifully.
Whoever loves pleasure will be a poor man; he who loves wine and oil will not be rich.
Back when I was in Jax FL a number of times the Dollhouse's famous Katya would ask if I really wanted to tip as much as I did. She even said I tipped too much once after i gave her the money. I've never had a stripper do that!
I've heard the good ol' DH has closed and risen again like a phoenix from the flames. JAX mongers...does Katya still work there?
At first it comes off as her being “nice†or “humble†about it – “just pay me what you thinkâ€.
But no doubt is probably a calculated sales tactic to put a PL in a tight spot and perhaps overpay at the fear/worry of being a cheapskate as shadow mentioned – probably similar in tactics to the waitress asking you right in front of the dancer “wanna buy the lady a drinkâ€.
I've done my research on area SCs AND escort expectations. For example, I know what the dancer's cut is from LD or VIP charges. I also have certain expectations for VIP.
I will work to somewhat separate the tip from my evaluation of the experience. 'I really liked the LDs, especially......'
If she's unhappy I'll acknowledge it and tell her she probably deserves it but that's beyond the going rate.' If necessary, I'll add that [her expectations] are beyond my budget and, unhappily, I'll not seek her company again. I'm prepared to cut my losses early no matter how good she is OR go along with her expectations. Not an easy decision in a small SC market.
Still, I accept the possibility of over or under paying and try not to obsesses about it, lol.
Away from my non-extras-friendly hometown in a place that's very extras friendly, but on a busy schedule, so I decide to hit my favorite, most-reliable place during the day (something I generally don't like to do, but had to take advantage of the opportunity). The place generally opens at 1 p.m. on the day I went, but I got the impression they were maybe getting a late start as it appeared they were doing a review when I got in at 2 p.m., which made me think that maybe they had just opened.
Anyhow, girl on stage catches my eye. Body like Kate Upton's. Black hair and not the greatest face, but I loved the big naturals so I tipped her a few times and told her to find me off stage.
We do some talking, including about some sexual things, and it turns out she's kind of a nympho who loves threesomes and has been to a gangbang or two and does some kinky stuff with her boyfriend. I discuss how I've tried to up my knowledge of female anatomy and whatnot through the years. She's also only 18. Goodness.
So we go in the back. She's great, but it's almost like it's too much pressure, given everything. Little Jim's just not in the mood. But, I at least wanted to say something happened, so I did some practice with my fingers. She had to cover her mouth a few times so she wouldn't be heard and may or may not have left a wet spot on the couch.
So we get done and price hasn't been discussed yet at all. I pick up my wallet, I look at her and say, "So, about this ... " She just kind of shrugs and says, "Well, whatever you think." I figure I better give her something fair, but I also don't want to give her too much. $200 seems like a good amount.
So she takes it -- and she gives me $20 back. "I like to take care of my customers. Put it towards the valet."
Really? I mean, really? Of all the things I'd never expect, that was it. Wasn't sure if this was common, or if it was because she liked it, or me, or what. But it really seemed like the absolute least likely thing I'd ever expect to have happen in a club. You expect to be milked for every possible dollar when you go, and a dancer gives you money back.
Just ... strange.