Are you surprised when strippers seem to routinely remember you from long ago?

5 comments

• jctone

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  19 years ago

  They should remember you, you are a customer. They are like salespeople, it is good to remember your clients. It usually means a easier time making some money.
  
  If you were a dancer, would you prefer to go after new clients every night or have some regular clients? Simple.
• Clubber

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  19 years ago

  Spend some bucks on them and they ALWAYS remember you!
• komey1970

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  19 years ago

  And the point of playing this game is what? I'm not looking for a date at the strip club, just a good time.
• davids

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  19 years ago

  Oh, one more tip: even if you do remember he as she tells the story don't let on that you do. If you don't remember her just tell her so. If you do then you can either keep that information secret or if lying to strippers doesn't bother you or you can rationalize it as "teasing" or "playing their own game" or whatever then insist that you don't remember her. (I guess teasing for a few minutes then admitting that you do remember after all is ethical, but that's a personal decision.)
• davids

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  19 years ago

  Happens to me too and it is very surprising.
  
  If you do some quick calculations you'll find that they've probably seen hundreds or even thousands of other guys in the meantime.
  
  I think you can use this to your advantage as follows: First of all tease them and say "You don't really remember me that's just some cheap pick up line". Often at that point they will recall in remarkable details the time when you met, eg. what you were wearing, what you talked about, something strange that was happening in the club. (I have an exceptional memory myself so am able to verify what she is saying.)
  
  After that ask them "so out of the thousands of guys you've met in here how do you manage to remember me?" Then accuse her of being in love with you/and or a stalker. At that point you pretty much own her and have a couple of good options:
  
  1) if she isn't dating material tell you don't want a dance that night because you all promised another "friend" of yours that you would get dances from her. The next time you she her you are going to get one hell of a dance.
  
  2) If she is dating material than ask her out: "well you obviously seem to be interested in me beyond my money, I think that I'll give you a chance..." blah blah blah
  
  Good luck and have fun,
  Your Friend,
  David S.