Couples room with husband/wife
My husband and I have gone to strip clubs together a few times and I've had two lap dances by two different women strippers. The club is a nude club although the dances I had were in a a semi private room and done in a top and bottoms. The girls were very touchy and kissed my neck a little and moved their tops to the side a few times and let me rub their nipples. My husband wasn't watching these dances. He goes to strip clubs a lot and goes into the totally private rooms and gets dances. They usually run about $400'dollars a dance. I've asked what takes place and he has said they don't allow him to touch, never kiss or rub him through his pants and usually just take their tops off and slide their bottoms over for a few peaks while they dance. I find this very hard to believe based on my own experience with my much less expensive dance, in the same club that this is all that takes place. I've been debating if I should do a couples dance in the private room with him. I'm more curious to see what goes on although, I understand it will vary from place to place and gilr to girl. Has anyone had a couples dance in a vip room? What has happened during that dance? Does the stripper dance on both of you? Have u ever had an experience where she started kissing either of you, rubbing under your clothes?Or touching your panties or penis? I understand they are entertainers and not hookers, so I'm not trying to be disrespectful. Just want to have an idea of what I'm getting into. I don't want to do it and be uncomfortable but I also don't want the stripper to not do what she normally does for my husband. I don't think he's being honest so I would just like to hear some stories of other experiences getting a couples dance. Do the strippers usually touch them selfs? I plan on picking the girl so I'm not concernd with him talking to her before hand to try and tell her how to do the dance.
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In general though, I'd agree with those who suspect he might be fibbing a bit.
If you are acting uncomfortable and making him uncomfortable he's going to be sending all sorts of signs to the dancers that will get him low milage. If your husband spends $400 regularly he's experienced and he is likely getting far more than what he's telling you. If he isn't being honest with you then you need to create an environment where honesty can happen. So ask yourself the question do you really want to know what $400 is buying him? If you think the answer is yes, then why? Do you want to start swinging? Do you want an open marriage? Do you not really care that he's stepping out but don't want it to undermine trust? Why do you want to know? My guess is the answer is no and just don't press.
But if you really do want to know then you need to change your marriage so that he's comfortable telling you the truth. Which means if you are participating you need to do something to indicate a change like buying him a BJ from a dancer. Or getting a very high milage dance for yourself. Or telling him something else that you've never told him as part of you guys not lying to one another.....