I've concluded that asking a stripper you like for a date is very bad idea:
First of all strippers think it is rude and inappropriate for customers to ask them for dates. Especially when you barely even know them. Hence a better strategy is to get to know her really well by buying lap dances from her and paying for conversation. After a number of months (or years) you may get to know each other very well indeed.
She will get to know the "real you" which she is bound to like. She will realize that you really like her because of the money and time you have invested.
She may ask you for a date at this point, but it may "slip her mind". So once the two of you have established trust and got to know each other really well and it has "slipped her mind" to ask you for a date, then you might want to ask yourself, but just be clear that whether she answer "yes" or "no" it will not affect your business relationship. (If it would affect the business relationship that just proves you didn't really like her to begin with and were only interested in sex.)
This is the real way to get dates with strippers. Forget all that crap in "pick up" books.
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First of all strippers think it is rude and inappropriate for customers to ask them for dates. Especially when you barely even know them. Hence a better strategy is to get to know her really well by buying lap dances from her and paying for conversation. After a number of months (or years) you may get to know each other very well indeed.
She will get to know the "real you" which she is bound to like. She will realize that you really like her because of the money and time you have invested.
She may ask you for a date at this point, but it may "slip her mind". So once the two of you have established trust and got to know each other really well and it has "slipped her mind" to ask you for a date, then you might want to ask yourself, but just be clear that whether she answer "yes" or "no" it will not affect your business relationship. (If it would affect the business relationship that just proves you didn't really like her to begin with and were only interested in sex.)
This is the real way to get dates with strippers. Forget all that crap in "pick up" books.