...what do you fantasize is happening?
SC: Okay, I'll start with some simple stuff I daydream about between visits to clubs. If I've just met a stripper, and I'm looking forward to seeing her again, I'll dream about taking things to another level. I might start by replaying in my mind the best parts of our first encounter, then add new twists or whole new directions I hope we go next time. It's not always clear whether I'm imagining it as a lapdance with extras in a club or as foreplay in some unspecified setting. I don't fantasize about just sitting and holding a conversation, but my fantasies often include dialog, usually filthy, and role playing talk.
On the other extreme, I imagine playing out hardcore, degrading sex scenes. Some strippers love talking about these fantasies.
Some of what I fantasize comes true. Not as much as I wish, but that's why they're fantasies.
(Writing this between trick or treaters was weird, and NOT one of my fantasies.)
Gentlemen, this is astonishing! What do you tell them when they ask? Do you not fantasize about wives, girlfriends, lovers? Is this some kind of 'Real Men Don't Fantasize' thing?
I don't fantasize about strippers. You're pretty much living the dream when you buy a dance from one.
I agree with Shadowcat. Fantasy arises out of mystery, and there isn't a lot of mystery concerning most strippers.
My fantasies tend to be about OTC and invloving more than one stripper. I don't know about you guys, but that's not something that happens to me regularly (read "ever").