SC: Okay, I'll start with some simple stuff I daydream about between visits to clubs. If I've just met a stripper, and I'm looking forward to seeing her again, I'll dream about taking things to another level. I might start by replaying in my mind the best parts of our first encounter, then add new twists or whole new directions I hope we go next time. It's not always clear whether I'm imagining it as a lapdance with extras in a club or as foreplay in some unspecified setting. I don't fantasize about just sitting and holding a conversation, but my fantasies often include dialog, usually filthy, and role playing talk.
On the other extreme, I imagine playing out hardcore, degrading sex scenes. Some strippers love talking about these fantasies.
Some of what I fantasize comes true. Not as much as I wish, but that's why they're fantasies.
(Writing this between trick or treaters was weird, and NOT one of my fantasies.)